How Unequal Sex Drives Lead to Betrayal with Britton and Carolee Beckham

Update: 2025-10-16

Description

When one partner wants sex all the time and the other doesn’t, it can create deep tension, and sometimes even lead to betrayal. In this video, we talk honestly about what happens when an overly sexual man and an undersexual woman try to navigate intimacy, unmet needs, and the pain that can come from infidelity. We explore what’s really behind these mismatched desires, how resentment and shame build up over time, and what it takes to heal and rebuild trust after it’s been broken. This isn’t about blame, it’s about understanding, communication, and learning how to reconnect in a way that feels safe, honest, and real. If you’ve struggled with desire differences or are trying to recover from infidelity, this conversation will help you see what healing can actually look like.

About the Guest:

Britton and Carolee Beckham
Expertise: Britton and Carolee, raised in the strict dogma of the Mormon church, and with infidelity threatening their marriage and family, found themselves at a cliff’s edge. Through a deep commitment to heal, these two left everything they knew to find themselves. Over a period of five years, they rebooted their relationship and traveled the world seeking their truth with four kids in tow. They have emerged on the other side as a embodied and awakened couple with a powerful message to share about love, intimacy, healing, and the Divine.
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Timestamps:

(0:00 ) Introduction to Britton and Carolee Beckham
(1:14 ) Sponsor: Eternal Honeymoon Extravaganza
(2:13 ) Episode topics overview
(3:04 ) Britton Beckham's infidelity and relationship transformation
(6:21 ) Carolee's healing journey and symbolic acts
(11:51 ) Radical honesty and sexual sovereignty
(17:41 ) Redefining relationship agreements and freedom
(24:20 ) The role of self-betrayal in healing from trauma
(27:10 ) Navigating compromise and asking the right questions
(28:28 ) Renegotiating agreements and exploring BDSM for healing
(29:12 ) Resources, upcoming book, and mailing list
(31:10 ) Closing remarks and social media information