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How to handle sibling conflict when your PDA child lashes out?

How to handle sibling conflict when your PDA child lashes out?

Update: 2025-09-22
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804. Does your PDA (Pervasive Drive for Autonomy) kiddo lash out at their siblings leaving you feeling helpless and stressed? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explains what’s really happening beneath the surface of PDA meltdowns and why they often target siblings. She shares internal practices to steady yourself, external strategies to protect kids, and compassionate ways to reframe these intense moments.

Sources:

https://www.facebook.com/ThePDAPracticeCorner

https://pdatherapycollaborative.com/

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How to handle sibling conflict when your PDA child lashes out?

How to handle sibling conflict when your PDA child lashes out?

Dr. Nanika Coor