Instrumental Parentification (S3 Ep5)

Instrumental Parentification (S3 Ep5)

Update: 2025-12-05
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In today’s episode, I'm diving into Instrumental Parentification — a dynamic where a child becomes the household’s “mini Cinderella.” They’re the ones cooking, cleaning, managing bills and appointments, caring for siblings, or even being conditioned into the role of caregiver for an ill family member.

We’ll explore how these adult-sized responsibilities shape a child’s sense of self, and how the impact often follows them into adulthood, influencing their relationships - especially with their siblings.

Listen to understand how this pattern develops, why it’s so damaging, and what healing can look like.

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Instrumental Parentification (S3 Ep5)

Instrumental Parentification (S3 Ep5)

Katie McKenna