Have you been told to "submit" without understanding the full context? In this episode of "When Church Hurts," host Melody Kitzmiller dives deep into the concept of power dynamics in faith leadership and marriage, exposing how biblical teachings on submission are often misrepresented. Learn to identify spiritual abuse, recognize when leaders are not representing God's heart, and discover how to protect yourself and reclaim your peace. We explore the often-overlooked responsibilities of leaders, God's true intentions for relationships, and why actions speak louder than words in evaluating faith leaders and spouses. Tune in to understand Ephesians 4 in a new light and break free from fear-based faith.

If you are in an abusive environment, here are some ways to get help.
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
TTY: 1-800-787-3224
Live Chat: thehotline.org
This is a great place to start because everyone who answers the phone or your chat will be equipped to offer you sound advice, and know the protective measures that can help you.

Also, in every community, some individuals are obligated to help you. These include medical doctors, attorneys, and licensed therapists.

A word of warning: while all of these professions are mandatory reporters of abuse, sometimes, if they are connected to the church, then you may find that they don't always do what they are mandated legally to do. For best results, always seek help from those who are not affiliated with the church. Every church has people who would help you well, but it is hard to discern who is who. In abusive situations, it is always better to be safe than sorry.