Are you wearing your crown and creating your life—or simply waiting to see what life gives you?

Here’s the truth: It is your birthright to choose. To savor—not just survive. To feel—not just function. To rise—not only react.

As we welcome June and prepare to honor Juneteenth, let’s recognize this holiday for more than a moment in time. Let’s use it as a mirror and a map—revealing where we’ve been and where we still must go, especially within.

What People Miss About Juneteenth

Juneteenth is not just about the freeing of enslaved people—it’s about the delay of freedom. It marks the moment in 1865 when those in Galveston, Texas finally learned of the Emancipation Proclamation—two and a half years after it was signed.

That delay? It mirrors the emotional delay many of us live with every day. Long after the trauma ends, the nervous system still doesn’t know it’s free. Long after the gaslighting, the heartbreak, the isolation, our bodies still flinch. Our spirits still whisper, “Am I safe yet?”

So, what do we do?

We don’t wait for someone else to give us permission to be free. We choose to be free.

Emotional Freedom Is Our New Emancipation

Juneteenth teaches us that truth and freedom are not always delivered—they’re discovered. They’re embodied.

This June, I invite you to explore the Jewels of Juneteenth—lessons hidden inside hardship. Jewels are those moments or memories that once tried to crush us, yet became catalysts for our transformation. That’s what emotional healing is: the art of flipping pain into power.

In this episode, I talk about the history of Juneteenth and connect the dots between emotional healing, wholeness and historical events.

The Emancipation Proclamation

The Reconstruction Era

Harlem Renaissance/ Jim Crow

Self-nurturing

Invitations

Free Experiences

Retreat

And that’s the theme not only for the month of June, but for my podcast What People Miss, and my movement: From Surviving to Savoring.

From Surviving to Savoring: A Radical Reclamation

This isn’t a cute quote or another checklist. This is a somatic shift. This is about activating the parts of you that forgot how to feel good… and reminding them: Pleasure is not a reward. It’s a right.

Starting Tuesday, June 3 at 7 PM ET, I’m leading a 3-day virtual retreat called:

From Surviving to Savoring: How to Rewire Your Body for Pleasure and Emotional Freedom

This is your sacred space to:

🌿 Let your nervous system finally exhale

🌿 Use your emotions as a map, not a mess

🌿 Reconnect your body to joy and truth

🌿 Remember the woman you were before the world told you otherwise

This is the real work. This is the work that ends emotional abuse—not only in your partnerships or past, but in how you treat yourself.

This is your Juneteenth of the soul.

So, how will you walk into this week?

Will you wear your crown?

Will you meet your requirements instead of waiting for crumbs?

Will you transmute pain into purpose?

Because the other side of this work is joy. It’s embodiment. It’s multi-orgasmic living—not just sexually, but spiritually. Orgasm is the electric spark of life from your core, radiating out through every choice, word, and breath.

Let June be different this year. Let it be your liberation.

💫 You get to reclaim your joy.

💫 You get to savor your life.

💫 You get to become the woman you were always meant to be.

🔗 Register Now for the 3-day virtual retreat:

https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/UPcNX0GISWCgjP-oEnNndA

Let’s walk through the Jewels of Juneteenth together.

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