DiscoverBlendedJoel Beya: He Won’t Let Me Meet the Ex — Is It a Red Flag?
Joel Beya: He Won’t Let Me Meet the Ex — Is It a Red Flag?

Joel Beya: He Won’t Let Me Meet the Ex — Is It a Red Flag?

Update: 2025-08-27
Share

Description

 

This week on Blended, Kate Ferdinand is joined by Nathalie and special guest co-host Joel Beya — presenter, founder of Cheeky Sport, and dad — who brings a raw and honest male perspective to the table. Together, they tackle a dilemma from a woman whose partner won’t let her meet his ex. She’s asked, he keeps avoiding it, and now she’s starting to get suspicious.


Is this a massive red flag, or just a man not ready to blend the past with the present? Joel is brutally honest about why some men hold back, admitting he’s hurt people in the past simply because he wasn’t ready or serious. Kate says she’d want to meet the ex and build a relationship for the children’s sake but Joel pushes back, arguing it’s not always that simple.


The trio debate Is it about protecting boundaries, or avoiding responsibility? and the ladies discuss why women can't settle for mixed signals instead of acting like the prize. Just when things heat up, Joel drops his belief that there’s no such thing as “one true love” — and that doesn’t sit well with Kate or Nathalie.



Follow @blended on Instagram to share your story.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Comments 
In Channel
loading
00:00
00:00
x

0.5x

0.8x

1.0x

1.25x

1.5x

2.0x

3.0x

Sleep Timer

Off

End of Episode

5 Minutes

10 Minutes

15 Minutes

30 Minutes

45 Minutes

60 Minutes

120 Minutes

Joel Beya: He Won’t Let Me Meet the Ex — Is It a Red Flag?

Joel Beya: He Won’t Let Me Meet the Ex — Is It a Red Flag?