Welcome to Lesson 3 of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This lesson is about Expansion. This gives men perspective on what is needed from them in the event that they encounter an independent woman. There are ways men can be very effective in love without being providers, protectors, and provision makers. There is room for men becoming something other than they have grown accustomed to be used for.This lesson was administered by Autumn Woodland, and old podcast friend who has just come into a sense of independence of her own in recent times. Just becoming a brand new homeowner, she has grown accustomed to providing and taking care of herself...but lately has found her sense of independence has appeared threatening to the men she comes across. So we discussed this, and so many other things.We talk about the idea behind needing someone. How we communicate our responsibilities for one another differently. We talked about how better communication is needed much more than being taken care of...because oftentimes both men and women are very capable to take care of someone else...but rarely know how to properly take care of themselves correctly. And lastly, realizing that gender roles can box you in...and actually destroy your concepts of how you care for someone. We as men and women learn that women don't always need men for their typical expectations women place on them. There is a dire need for things much more intimate and personal. so Autumn insists that you find unique ways to add value to a person who is equipped with potentially everything you may have to offer. A new way of saying "Step Your Game Up"!!!!