None of us really outgrow our need for affection.  The outward signs may not be as clear as with small babies, but many people “fail to thrive” because of lack of affection.  We all have a need to receive affection if we are to become the best that we can be.  We also need to give affection freely so others know we care.

People express affection in different ways.  Some are more comfortable than others giving and receiving affection.  For some it is very natural to give kisses, hugs or pats on the back.  For others this can seem awkward.  Some people find it easy to speak warmly and affectionately.  For others, doing something for someone is their way of showing affection.  It should also be remembered that children have different personalities and sometimes prefer different expressions of affection. 

You can determine appropriate ways to show affection to each family member by asking the following questions:

∙ When you are feeling upset, what can someone do to show they care about you?

∙ If you had just received an award, how could someone show they are happy for you?

∙ When you want to show someone you care, would you be more likely to do something special for them, praise them, or give them a hug?

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