Getting to forgiveness is very possible! Our next guest is Melissa Jean Rod, but you can call her M.J. She is a writer, speaker, sunset-chaser, and accidental detective of her own family tree. She helps women navigate the heartbreak of father wounds, the confusion of family secrets, and the questions of identity with honesty, hope, and a healthy dose of humor. Her debut book, The Daddy Files tells the true story of what happened when she found out the man she thought was my father… wasn't. It's part memoir, part mystery, and all about how God shows up in the middle of our mess. If you've ever felt left out, let down, or like you're carrying questions no one's answering—she sees you. She has been there. And she wrote this story for you.

In episode 613 of the Fraternity Foodie Podcast, we find out what inspired MJ to write "The Daddy Files", how that truth changed her life, how growing up without a father shaped the decisions she made, how college students can start healing from the "father wound" if they've never had that relationship modeled in their lives, why it's important to get to forgiveness, how her faith evolved through the process of uncovering family secrets, why humor is essential in overcoming trauma, what advice she has for others who discover unexpected truths about their families through DNA testing, how her family relationships changed after the truth came out, and what MJ would tell her 20 year-old self. Enjoy!