Not All Vibrators Are Created Equal Feat. Susan Bratton

Update: 2025-06-25

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“ Pleasure is not a luxury, it’s your birthright”

This week, the Good Moms are joined by intimacy expert, author, and as we’ve decided to call her “Sex Santa” Susan Bratton for a funny and informative look into pleasure, partnership, and personal transformation through the exploration of your body.

From 12 years of sexless marriage to becoming a global educator on over 20 types of orgasms, Susan shares how she turned her own bedroom into a second career filled with vibrators, science, and soul-level healing. The three caht about everything from vulva-friendly sex toys to throatgasms, ethical non-monogamy, and the quiet power of a well-prepped yoni massage.

You can expect to hear:

(12:10 ) Susan’s previously dull sex life, awakening through pleasure, and how orgasmic healing saved her marriage

(20:00 ) What it means to be an “orgasmonaut” and why most women are settling for way too little in and out of the bedroom

(28:45 ) Susan breaks down over 20 orgasm types, including throatgasms, analgasms, nipplegasms, and more

(35:10 ) The science behind expanded orgasm and why it’s not just about sex it’s about source

(44:20 ) Yoni massage, the Queen vibrator, and why most sex toys are designed without Black women in mind

(51:50 ) Thrust-in-time: a Taoist technique to make intercourse more orgasmic and deeply connective

(1:03:30 ) Why Susan loves sex toys that vibe with your partner, not just beside them

(1:07:00 ) Grandmas use vibrators too

(1:10:45 ) Cannabis and your libido

(1:19:20 ) Ethical non-monogamy, kitchen table polyamory, and how she manages a husband and a boyfriend with her daughter’s full knowledge

(1:27:15 ) STI testing without the awkward clinic trip and how new tech makes screening easier than ever

(1:32:40 ) Affirmation of the Week: “More toys, more orgasms, more joy. Pleasure is my birthright.”

Whether you're solo, partnered, or just vibing with curiosity, this episode offers a powerful reminder: pleasure is not a luxury, it's information, it’s medicine, and it’s yours to claim.

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Links mentioned in this week's episode:

orgasmicintercourse.com – A free resource for learning techniques for orgasmic intercourse.
fullpaneltest.com – STI home testing service
thrustintime.com –Technique for deeper sexual connection and stimulation.
betterlover.com – education and resources on sex, intimacy, and pleasure.
Lexus/Kiiro- LINK HERE