Q&A: How Do I Stop Apologizing While Topping?

Update: 2025-05-05

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A switch who’s new to topping keeps apologizing when their partner expresses (consensual) pain. Here’s the question: I’ve recently discovered my Switch side and Impact Topped for the first time at a kink event...

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