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Ruin The Friendship

Ruin The Friendship

Update: 2025-10-07
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In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest questions guys in their twenties ask: how to talk to girls at a bar without being awkward. 

Walking up to a girl at a bar can feel awkward. You start overthinking, psych yourself out, and end up doing nothing. I've been there. We've all been there. 

I share the three-step framework that helped me stop overthinking and actually start conversations that feel natural. I talk about how to give a real compliment, what to say next, and when to ask for her number.

More than that, I get into mindset of how to stop assuming you'll get rejected, how to carry yourself with confidence, and why rejection doesn't define you.

If you've ever stood across the room thinking, "I should say something" but didn't, this episode is for you. It's about confidence, connection, and getting out of your own way, because you either know or you never know.

Listen if you want to learn:

  • How to talk to girls at a bar with confidence
  • What to say when you walk up
  • Real dating advice for guys in their twenties
  • How to handle rejection without losing confidence

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Ruin The Friendship

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