SUMMARY

Ravayna Coe is the mother and wife of loved ones who are autistic, and she explores the multifaceted nature of autism, challenging the traditional narrative that frames it as an ending. Ravayna shares the story of her neurodivergent household as she herself has ADHD, as well as discussing the spectrum of autism, the importance of early intervention, and the diverse experiences within the autism community. She emphasizes the significance of communication, the challenges of parenting, and the need to shift societal perceptions of autism. The discussion highlights the beauty and complexity of raising a neurodivergent child, celebrating their unique qualities while navigating the challenges that come with it.

TAKEAWAYS

• Autism is a neurotype, not a disease.
• Diagnosis can provide clarity and direction.
• Non-verbal communication can be revelatory for the entire household.

• Ableism is a pervasive issue that needs addressing.
• More than one thing can be true in parenting experiences.
• Community and support in navigating autism.
• Celebrating the unique qualities of autistic individuals is essential.
• Hard experiences can lead to beautiful moments.

CHAPTERS

02:52 What does it mean to be neurodivergent?

06:03 Navigating Early Intervention and Support

08:44 The Impact of Autism on Family Dynamics

11:40 Challenging Misconceptions About Autism

14:47 Celebrating Progress and Unique Interests

17:43 Flipping the Script: Autism is not an ending

23:02 Challenging Ableism and Societal Norms

25:24 Redefining Hardship and Reward

27:45 Nonverbal Communication

32:33 Innovative Communication Strategies for Autism

34:29 Celebrating Asher's Unique Qualities

36:15 Embracing Complexity in Parenting

WORK WITH RAVAYNA COE

• Follow her on Instagram at @ravayna
• Learn more at www.loveravayna.com

ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTER

The Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

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