S2 Ep6: Make your dreams real by Skills Stacking for monotropism + distinction depth
Update: 2024-05-28
Description
Like many late-identified autistic / AuDHD / ADHD folks,
a foggy, porous, unstructured sense of self;
illusions, fantasies, pipe dreams...
was my predominant experience of myself,
until I learned to take EFFECTIVE, STRUCTURED ACTION.
That action has to be structured a certain way
for it to be effective.
I couldn't do things the way other people did them
nor follow their ideals, without losing myself.
"falling into holes"
In finding what has worked for me, I've adapted a concept that makes a strength out of my need to go deep; my monotropic tendencies; my need for distinction depth;
A way of structuring ACTION, called 'skills stacking'.
And this week's podcast episode is about why this works.
Focusing on the next skill / system / sensorial groove
until it is established, STACKING them one by one,
has given me the material experience
of my own agency, boundaries, and effectiveness
(the antidote to a porous self)
and helped me to build belief, clarity and unconscious competence
for my big impossible dreams
at speed.
I hope it serves you too.
Subscribe to the mailing list HERE
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TRANSCRIPT
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The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self.
Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.
Learn more at solasystems.xyz
a foggy, porous, unstructured sense of self;
illusions, fantasies, pipe dreams...
was my predominant experience of myself,
until I learned to take EFFECTIVE, STRUCTURED ACTION.
That action has to be structured a certain way
for it to be effective.
I couldn't do things the way other people did them
nor follow their ideals, without losing myself.
"falling into holes"
In finding what has worked for me, I've adapted a concept that makes a strength out of my need to go deep; my monotropic tendencies; my need for distinction depth;
A way of structuring ACTION, called 'skills stacking'.
And this week's podcast episode is about why this works.
Focusing on the next skill / system / sensorial groove
until it is established, STACKING them one by one,
has given me the material experience
of my own agency, boundaries, and effectiveness
(the antidote to a porous self)
and helped me to build belief, clarity and unconscious competence
for my big impossible dreams
at speed.
I hope it serves you too.
Subscribe to the mailing list HERE
___________
TRANSCRIPT
___________
The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self.
Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.
Learn more at solasystems.xyz
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