Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir
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Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir
with Tessa & Amir
(Season 4 | Episode 167)
[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we explore the concept of embracing an open life during our third act, challenging the traditional narrative of being an empty nester. Together, Amir and I delve into the thrilling possibilities of adventure, personal growth, and the deepening of relationships that come with this stage of life.
We discuss how redefining our identities can open our hearts and homes to new experiences, friendships, and even aspects of sensuality and spirituality previously unexplored.
As we reflect on our journey, we recognize the profound lessons learned through our exploration of open relationships.
The ensuing conversation reveals how embracing vulnerability and authenticity paves the way for genuine connection—not only with partners but also with our adult children and friends. We share anecdotes about navigating the intricate dynamics of love, joy, and jealousy, particularly emphasizing the importance of communication as we continue to shape our connections.
Throughout the episode, we reference empowering insights from thought leaders like Jessica Fern, whose work on attachment theory has inspired us to rethink how we interact in relationships. The idea of “compersion,” which encourages us to find happiness in the joy of others, plays a central role in our discussion. We emphasize that by letting go of traditional expectations, we can cultivate deeper intimacy and fulfillment without placing undue pressure on ourselves or our partners.
We also introduce the concept of “kitchen poly,” highlighting how casual interactions and friendships within the polyamorous community can enhance our sense of belonging. Through shared experiences and gatherings, we learn to integrate these new connections into our lives without feeling threatened or insecure. This sense of community becomes a vital thread in our narrative, reinforcing the notion that love and friendship can transcend conventional boundaries.
We dive into our own experiences of intimacy and connection, discussing how our evolving understanding of love has led to a richer, more vibrant life. This includes recognizing that while relationships may change and adapt, the core essence of love—the desire to see and honor one another—remains steadfast. By sharing our stories, we aim to inspire listeners to embrace their current chapter with open hearts, welcoming new possibilities without judgment or fear.
Finally, we stress the importance of acknowledging personal needs while respecting the autonomy of others. In celebrating individual paths, we encourage a culture of generosity and support within partnerships. We acknowledge the complexities that accompany ethical non-monogamy and reiterate our commitment to maintaining clear communication and honesty in our relationships. Life is too short to let fear dictate our connections; we urge everyone to step into their authentic selves, liberating themselves from the confines of societal norms.
Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir
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Resources for You
We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:
The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group
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