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Self-Sabotage & Why We Do It

Self-Sabotage & Why We Do It

Update: 2025-06-23
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This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are talking about self-sabotage and why we do it. They discuss how to identify if you’re self sabotaging, the different ways self-sabotage can present itself, if they consider themselves self-sabotagers, self-criticism vs. self-compassion, how self-sabotaging behaviors can be a protective mechanism, avoidance, fear of failure and discomfort, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: Fast forward to around 7 minutes to skip the intro and get straight to today’s content.




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Self-Sabotage & Why We Do It

Self-Sabotage & Why We Do It

Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT and Emmalee Bierly, LMFT