Shifting From Compliance to Connection: The Power of Declarative Language in Supporting Kids
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We’re exploring a simple yet transformative shift in how we communicate with children facing social-emotional challenges: using declarative language.
I’ll break down exactly what declarative language is, how it differs from giving direct commands, and why this small change can make a big impact on fostering connection, self-reflection, and problem-solving skills in our kids. Drawing on resources like The Declarative Language Handbook by Linda Murphy and Communicating with Compassion by Bobbi Cook, we’ll share real-world examples, discuss both the benefits and the challenges of this approach, and bring in perspectives from autistic adults and parents.
In this episode you'll hear about:
- Understanding Declarative Language
- The Importance of Declarative Language
- Encouraging flexible thinking, problem solving, and social awareness
- Practical Examples of Declarative Language
- Sample statements from Linda Murphy’s work (The Declarative Language Handbook)
- The Shift from Compliance to Connection
- Personal Reflections and Related Experiences
- Early exposure to these communication strategies
- Tips for Starting with Declarative Language
- Navigating Common Challenges
- Considering Neurodivergent and Autistic Perspectives
- Addressing Parental Concerns and Objections
Links and Resources From Today's Show
- Why Should I Seek Occupational Therapy?
- When Declarative Language Doesn't Work
- When Declarative Language Activates The Nervous System
- Declarative Language Handbook
- Communicating With Compassion: By Bobbi Cook
- Episode 16: Navigating the Interoceptive Sense: Insights and Strategies for Parents
- Episode 32: Homeschooling During Crisis: Finding Balance with Self Care and Family Support
- Episode 50: Ask The OT, A Special 50th Episode
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