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Shut It Down

Shut It Down

Update: 2025-08-24
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Some endings aren't meant to be rewritten. In this episode, I get into why it’s so tough to let go and why “spinning the block” usually leads to more chaos. I'll discuss how to find emotionally equipped partners, what it means when a man asks you to hang out but never follows through, and the harsh reality of why holding onto "what used to be" keeps you stuck. If you’ve ever needed the truth about whether that spark is real or just a trauma bond, you are about to get it.


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Chapters

00:00 Waiting For Commitment

25:33 When They Spin the Block

32:45 How to Find Someone Healed

41:47 “I Want to See You” But No Action

48:34 Intense Spark or Trauma Bond?

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