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Situationships, Standards & Self Respect

Situationships, Standards & Self Respect

Update: 2025-08-25
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Two of my exes popped back into my life in the same week. I unpack how those conversations forced me to look at old patterns, why I’ve mistaken chaos for connection in the past, and what I’m no longer willing to tolerate. From trauma bonds to fearful-avoidant attachment to raising my standards, I’m sharing the lessons that are reshaping how I date in my 20s. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle with someone, this one’s calling out both you and me❤️

Honorary mention to Unc🕺

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Situationships, Standards & Self Respect

Situationships, Standards & Self Respect

Kara Arbadji