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Stop Fighting, Start Fucking: The Secret to Divorce-Proof Love

Stop Fighting, Start Fucking: The Secret to Divorce-Proof Love

Update: 2025-12-10
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How do you stop fighting with the person you love — and start fucking again?

Sex scholar Nadège sits down with Kenya K Stevens, CEO of the Progressive Love Academy, bestselling author, and the woman known for making relationships divorceproof.

Kenya, who has been in a polyamorous marriage for decades, reveals the communication tools, emotional skills, and indigenous conflict-resolution techniques that help couples transform fights into connection, passion, and actual intimacy.

Together, we explore:

🔥 How to stop destructive fighting patterns and break the “attack–defend” cycle
💥 The #1 behavior quietly destroying even the strongest marriages
😡 How to express rage, anger, and disappointment without harming your relationship
💋 The biggest sex problems long-term lovers face — and how to fix them

Kenya also shares candidly about her own life: raising a family with two husbands, navigating jealousy, cultivating conscious communication, and keeping her sexual power alive.

If you’re ready to stop fighting, heal resentment, communicate like soulmates, and revive the passion in your relationship, this episode is essential listening.


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Stop Fighting, Start Fucking: The Secret to Divorce-Proof Love

Stop Fighting, Start Fucking: The Secret to Divorce-Proof Love

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