Do you ever say yes to plans in the moment, only to feel dread creeping in later?

Oh my gosh, I used to do this ALL the time - getting swept up in someone's excitement, committing on the spot, then beating myself up when I didn't want to follow through.

In this episode, I'm sharing the game-changing strategy that completely transformed how I make plans (and honestly, it's created so much more ease in my life).

Here's what we're diving into:

• Why I had to stop trusting my "right now" feelings when making plans
• The simple buffer technique that prevents those awkward cancellation conversations
• How learning about my Emotional Authority changed everything about my decision-making (i.e. Human Design, if you want a reading I'm offering them for $250; DM me!)
• The beautiful contrast between Cam's sacral authority and my emotional wave
• Exactly what I say when someone invites me to something (it's so simple!)

The real talk: You are fully within your right to follow your feelings and change your mind. But there's a way to honor both your truth AND your relationships without all the guilt and shame.

If you've ever felt like the "flaky friend" or struggled with people-pleasing, this one's for you. I'm giving you full permission to take your time with decisions - because when you honor how you're designed, everything gets easier.

Let me know if this resonates! Send me a DM - I love hearing from you.

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