Ever feel like you're watching your own life unfold like a TV show? Because that's exactly what I want us to dive into today.

My DMs have been absolutely flooded since I released the breakup episode - people are going through major relationship shake-ups and it's got me thinking... we're in a collective switch up right now, and I want us all to lean into it.

Here's what I'm challenging you (and myself) to do: Look at your life like you're watching a TV show.

You're the main character, and you're sitting there as the audience member. What would you be screaming at the TV about? What would you be like "OH MY GOD, why doesn't she just DO this thing?!"

I'm putting myself in the hot seat first.

There are three things I would be absolutely blue in the face screaming at myself to change:

1. Start showing my face more on social media (yes, even though I'm a total cave woman who loves hiding behind the scenes)2. Actually talk about what I sell instead of being all mysterious about my offers like it's some "if you know, you know" situation
3. Learn to receive help and strengthen what I call my "receiving muscle"

I'm sharing my whole journey - from being that girl who submitted everything at 11:59 pm in college to now being three episodes ahead (my mom would be SHOOK). I also dive into this fascinating concept I discovered about inward vs outward gazes (think Marilyn Monroe vs Michelle Obama energy) and how I'm experimenting with shifting my whole approach to giving and receiving.

This episode is me getting real about why I'm ready to move from pure giving into a season of receiving, and how that shift is going to help other women do the same.

If you're feeling called to make changes but don't know where to start, this episode will give you that clarity and courage to take the first baby step.

I end with exactly how you can support the show if this resonates with you - because honestly, word-of-mouth is everything for podcast growth and I'm learning to actually ASK for help instead of just giving all the time.

What would YOU be screaming at your main character to do? DM me - I love hearing from you!

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