Submissive Men, Sovereign Desire: Is This a New Frontier in Masculinity?

Update: 2025-09-26

Description

What if strength wasn’t about control, but about surrender? In this Seduction Tech episode, I sit down with Taylor Ellwood, who is a men’s coach, writer, and explorer of “sovereign submission,” in order to unpack a taboo subject: the power of men who embrace submission.

Taylor shares his journey from heartbreak to men’s work, his critique of performative dominance, and how living as a submissive man brought him clarity, empowerment, and deeper intimacy. We dive into:

* The difference between being “nice” and being truly submissive

* Why vulnerability and surrender can be forms of strength

* How rituals and service redefine pleasure and masculinity

* The line between ego-driven sex and service-driven intimacy

* Why men must speak up for their true desires

Whether you reject the label or feel a hidden resonance with it, this conversation will challenge your assumptions and open new possibilities for how masculinity, power, and desire can be lived.

You can connect with Taylor through the following platforms:

Substack and his website TheMensMysteries.com

You can also follow Taylor on Instagram or check out a full list of other platforms here.

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