Tending the Flame

Tending the Flame

Update: 2025-11-25
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In this episode, Don explores what it means to tend the flame - to lead with passion without being consumed by it. Through the lens of Ronald Heifetz’s “balcony view” and a personal story about navigating conflict with a group of community members, Don reflects on the inner work required to rise above emotion and lead with clarity and purpose.

He’s joined by Julia Sleeper, co-founder and Executive Director of Tree Street Youth in Lewiston, Maine, and a powerful voice in community-based youth development. Don and Julia trace the origins of their shared fire for this work - from their early days shaped by UrbanPromise in Camden, NJ, to years of learning alongside one another across rural and urban communities.

Together, they dive into the heart of grounded leadership: how to stay connected without getting overwhelmed, how to recognize when passion turns into reactivity, and how to cultivate the inner steadiness needed to lead for the long haul.

A warm, honest, and energizing conversation for anyone committed to leading from the inside out.

To learn more about Don's work, upcoming offerings, and leadership resources, visit carpentercompanyconsulting.com

If something in today’s episode spoke to you, I hope you’ll subscribe and continue the journey with me — because leadership begins within.




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