We're back! Join us as we catch you up on everything you've missed the last couple weeks over a couple (or many) cocktails. Erica is finally home from New York and has some small town drama to share, while Kat has been holding down the fort back in Raleigh and hit a pretty exciting milestone.  A recurring theme in both our updates though is a topic we like to call "that sounds like a you problem."  Relationships in every form (be it familial, friendships, or romantic) are hard, and what's even harder is learning to not take everything done to you personally.  Because let's face it- we've all been through some shit, especially in our twenties.  We all have baggage, some more than others, and we all have been hurt.  And like the saying goes, hurt people hurt other people.  You can't control what someone else does, how they react and behave, how they feel, and how they treat you.  You can't control whether or not another person grows up and takes accountability.  All you can control is how you choose to respond, and what boundaries you set for yourself.  The best lesson you can learn is how to determine whether a situation is actually your problem, or if it is a projection of someone else's problem.  And if it's the latter, then understanding how to detach emotionally and realizing someone else's issue is not a reflection of you, your worth, or your value.