Have you tried to forgive someone for a past offense but find yourself struggling with resentment and bitterness? Sometimes, if the offense is very hurtful, it can be difficult to forgive. How do you forgive someone when you're hurting? Forgiveness is not a feeling, nor forgetting, nor is it excusing.Forgiveness is a choice. When we don't have the strength alone to forgive, we can find the grace through God to forgive. Spiritual Coach Bobbi R. Brooks will take you through The 4 Steps to Forgiveness to help you find the grace to let go of heartache and disappointment and find peace.