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The Disappointment Diaries: I Got Broke Up With by Email

The Disappointment Diaries: I Got Broke Up With by Email

Update: 2025-08-12
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Have you ever been rejected? Did you like it? The truth is, nothing about rejection feels good. 

It opens the door for the whispers of doubt and and the enemy has a hay-day! He desperately wants you to believe you are not enough and to not press forward. And he will try to destroy your purpose and dreams and he will use unlikely sources.

Rejection is something we all have to deal with at some point. BUT, if we’re not aware and on guard, rejection can become not just a message, but a false “truth” that about who we are and what we’re made it do. Rejection allows the enemy in to use doubts and discouragement to sabotage who we’re meant to be. 

So let’s talk about it. Let’s talk about rejection and the breakup of our hopes. Because it’s real, and it’s life. 

But how do we use faith (and a sprinkle of behavorial neuroscience) to not let disappointment become a stinkin’ thinkin’ message about us and who God made us to be? Well, using my out-of-the-blue email breakup that initially crushed me, learn how we don’t have to let the enemy have a seat at our table while we dine at the battlefield of purpose.

Okay, okay, I get it; while that sounds “nice” to say, nothing about this is easy and you don’t want to do it. WHY? 

Because it’s HARD. Our human nature and wiring wants us to spend time ruminating and plotting sweet revenge and to be honest, it’s way easier. (Oh is that just me? I had visions of sending a signed copy of my "best-selling book" Love Moves that helped thousands of woman heal and have a reset through love to the publisher to “show them” that I am enough. Ah revenge rumination.)

We want to react from our flesh. We want to rage. We want to sob. And yet…Jesus wants us to respond, not as a doormat, but as a daughter of the King. But how do we do that?

Well, since I've been a squashed caterpillar pancake (you’re welcome), I’m uniquely designed to share how we can rewire our brains to choose love over fear. Because we don’t want to become like the people who hurt us. Let's choose to let God’s love soak our kind, firm responses and show us how to move forward when our life has been sideswiped by rejection. 

Grab your coffee as we dive into the messy bits to understand how things that *feel* like setbacks can be God’s setups for something amazing! 

Are you ready for your breakup to become your breakthrough? 

Yes? YAY! (I feel like we’re in jammies and working through a breakup together over that steaming mug of really good coffee!) 

Let’s do this--let’s learn how other’s rejections and breakups can be God’s launchpad for our new, our next, and the more He has for our lives!

Missed what the 100 day fast was all about and why? Then check out the episdoe: Emerge Fast, Transform in 100 Days to Fly Girl Fly 

And if you're ready to let love help you respond to moments, then check out the 6-minute reset: Love Move Reset Gratitude SMRM

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The Disappointment Diaries: I Got Broke Up With by Email

The Disappointment Diaries: I Got Broke Up With by Email

Ashriel Huber