The Power of Honest Storytelling
Description
Storytelling as a Catalyst for Inclusion and Positive Change
Nick Elston explores how honest storytelling and embracing vulnerability can transform personal adversity into powerful connections, ignite belonging, and inspire authentic conversations that challenge societal norms.
In this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, Joanne Lockwood explores the transformative potential of honest storytelling with guest Nick Elston. Together, they unpack the role of vulnerability and authenticity in forging meaningful connections, both personally and in professional circles. Joanne shares the evolution of her own narrative and emphasises how sharing lived experiences can foster empathy and a sense of belonging. Nick explains the emotional weight of repeatedly telling one’s story and the importance of adapting narratives to serve both audience and personal wellbeing, whilst ensuring stories remain relevant and impactful. The discussion openly addresses the discomfort and courage required to lead with vulnerability in spaces not always primed for change.
Nick is a keynote guest renowned for empowering individuals to embrace their voice, share their stories, and cultivate genuine human connection. As founder of Forging People, his mission centres on turning vulnerability into a catalyst for growth and transformation. Drawing upon a journey shaped by obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, Nick began using his voice as a therapeutic tool in the wake of professional burnout. His approach champions not only personal development but actively encourages others to break the silence around mental health and embrace their full selves in the workplace and beyond. Throughout the episode, Joanne and Nick engage in candid dialogue about the challenges of “owning your story” without being trapped in the past, the pitfalls of performative vulnerability, and the necessity of creating spaces where difficult questions can be safely explored.
The conversation further delves into ways of balancing lived experience with boundaries, highlighting the emotional and psychological labour inherent in driving inclusion. Both Joanne and Nick offer practical illustrations of communicating difficult topics—ranging from gender identity to mental illness—with humanity and relatability. They engage in a robust exchange about the power of authenticity to disrupt echo chambers and foster genuine change, particularly in environments resistant to inclusion.
A key takeaway from this episode is the power of lived experience as a vehicle for connection and positive action. Listeners will gain insight into using their authentic narrative not as a limitation, but as an evolving tool for personal empowerment and meaningful impact. Whether you are seeking to share your own story or lead others through theirs, this episode will inspire you to embrace vulnerability and ignite the spark of inclusion.
Published: 22.05.2025
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Clips and Timestamps
The Power of Authenticity in Professional Environments: “speaking without the filter, speaking with authenticity and vulnerability, and why has that been hugely hijacked since, to be fair? It builds a bridge of trust and connection and depth with people far more than any superficial message were ever trained to deliver in professional environments for sure.”
— Nick Elston [00:04:10 → 00:04:26 ]
Viral Topic: The Reality of Audience Engagement: “No one cares as much as we think they do. And I mean that in the nicest possible way, that you could be the most exciting a list celebrity, but after fifteen minutes of talking to an audience, they’re gonna wanna know what’s in it for them.”
— Nick Elston [00:07:31 → 00:07:42 ]
The Universal Search for Belonging: “The common fact factor for me is belonging, And it’s essentially kind of a big reason why I do what I do now is that it affects our sense of belonging enough to feel that we’re marginalized enough to not have a platform, to not have a voice, to not feel that we can step up.”
— Nick Elston [00:11:37 → 00:11:53 ]
Cancel Culture and the Fear of Asking Questions: “I think we’re really afraid of asking questions for the fear of being canceled or being ashamed or or just saying the wrong thing. And I think that’s something we we need to maintain, the ability to ask better questions.”
— Nick Elston [00:13:05 → 00:13:06 ]
Viral Topic – Overcoming Toxic Environments: “I withdrew myself from that. So, actually, I I would say this was many years ago, but I admire your strength and courage to do that.”
— Nick Elston [00:17:41 → 00:17:48 ]
Why Diversity Champions Take On Extra Burdens: “Very often why people come into these roles of representing a section of society or section of humanity is because they have either experienced that directly or indirectly themselves. But by nature, you then become more sensitive to take on the burdens and the challenges of everybody else.”
— Nick Elston [00:24:10 → 00:24:30 ]
Viral Topic: The Hidden Toll of Mental Health Advocacy: “So, actually, if you look at mental health champions, for example, that by the time they get home, they have not only supported themselves, but 20 other people, and that’s before they even get home. Home is not always a good place.”
— Nick Elston [00:24:36 → 00:24:49 ]
Viral Topic: The Hidden Cost of High Performance: “we can be highly successful and highly performing fueled by anxiety, but you can only run for so long until you stop, and therein lies the problem.”
— Nick Elston [00:34:06 → 00:34:14 ]
Viral Topic: Handling Pushback and Low-Level Toxicity
“One of the things that I find people that have been through experiences in their lives find most difficult to start with is trying to engage with people that don’t think like them and actually quite bluntly and and sometimes, as you say, abusively don’t agree with them as well. That could be really challenging sometimes.”
— Nick Elston [00:41:23 → 00:41:42 ]
Viral Topic: The Power of Perspective in Storytelling: “I could deliver the same talk to the same audience four times and have four different outcomes because if that one person in the audience is going through a marital problem, they’re gonna pick up on the bit when I talk about personal relationships. Next time around, it could be a professional problem, and they’ll pick up they’ll ignore the other bit.”
— Nick Elston [00:51:48 → 00:52:06 ]
Definition of Terms Used
Honest Storytelling
- Definition: Honest storytelling is the practice of sharing one’s authentic life experiences, including vulnerabilities and challenges, in a manner that is transparent and unfiltered, particularly in professional or public speaking contexts.
- Relevance: Within the episode, honest storytelling serves as a bridge to trust, empathy, and deep connection. It enables speakers and listeners to move beyond superficial communication, fostering inclusivity and a genuine sense of belonging.
- Examples: Nick Elston discussing his journey with OCD and anxiety candidly in workplace settings; Joanne Lockwood reflecting on her experiences as a trans woman to engage audiences authentically.
- Related Terms: Authenticity, Vulnerability, Narrative Therapy, Emotional Leadership
- Common Misconceptions: Some believe that honest storytelling means sharing every personal detail or “airing dirty laundry,” when, in reality, it is about selecting meaningful experiences that enable broader connection without retraumatising oneself.
Vulnerability as a Strength
- Definition: The concept that openly acknowledging and sharing one’s insecurities, struggles, or emotion
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