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The Quiet Collapse ADHD Women Call “Functioning

The Quiet Collapse ADHD Women Call “Functioning

Update: 2025-11-12
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Have you ever looked at your life from the outside and thought, “Everything looks fine… so why don’t I feel fine?”


In this episode, I’m talking about the quiet, almost invisible shutdown many ADHD women experience when we’re technically “getting things done,” but we’ve disconnected from our bodies in order to do it.


Not burnout. Not a crisis. Just this low-grade numbness that sneaks in when survival mode becomes our norm.


I share how I noticed this pattern in myself, the subtle signs so many of us overlook, why high-functioning ADHD often comes at a physical and emotional cost, and the small, compassionate shifts I’m making to come back into my life instead of just managing it.


If you’ve been productive but not present… if you’re checking boxes but not feeling anything while you do it… this episode is going to land deeply.


✨ Mentioned in the episode:  Eleonore de Posson, https://www.eleonoredeposson.com/


 


—CHAPTERS—


00:00 Introduction: Feeling Alive vs. Going Through the Motions


01:00 Recognizing the Signs of Disconnection


02:05 Personal Experiences and Realizations


05:51 Understanding ADHD and Dissociation


07:24 The Importance of Mindfulness and Presence


11:53 Strategies for Reconnecting with Your Body


19:12 The Role of the Nervous System


27:41 Practical Tips for Staying Present


36:58 Conclusion: Embracing Mindfulness in Daily Life


 


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💛 Connect with me on social media!


Youtube: @Jenbarnes


LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenbarneslicsw/


 


DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal health or medical advice.  We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast. This podcast is not intended to replace professional medical advice or psychotherapy.


If you are experiencing a medical or mental health emergency please contact emergency services in your area.  If you are in the USA, dial 988 for the Suicide and Crisis line or 911 for a medical emergency.

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The Quiet Collapse ADHD Women Call “Functioning

The Quiet Collapse ADHD Women Call “Functioning

Jen Barnes