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The Real Downside of Intentionally Misunderstanding People

The Real Downside of Intentionally Misunderstanding People

Update: 2025-10-01
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This week in the communal Schauer we’re discussing the actual, neurological, downside of intentionally (not accidentally) misunderstanding others! Now I do want y’all to know that there is a difference between genuine debate and being an obtuse pr*ck, so please don’t assume I’m saying “never disagree again.” You can understand (comprehend) someone but you do not have to validate their augment (apply positive or negative moral judgement) because those are two separate processes in the brain. Other than that, please enjoy this episode, have an amazing week, and I hope you feel *a moderate to intense* experience of delight with this new information!




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Olivia Unplugged Tiktok


https://www.tiktok.com/@olivia.unplugged?_t=ZT-90APwzxxDNG&_r=1



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Life In Three Dimensions: How Curiosity, Exploration, and Experience Make a Fuller, Better Life - Shigehiro Oishi, PhD




Why We Sleep - Matthew Walker PhD




Use Powerful Intentions to Become Your Authentic Best 


https://newayscenter.com/powerful-intentions-authentic-best/



  • Helpful resource for positively framing intentions




The influence of intentions on dream content 


https://academic.oup.com/sleepadvances/article/5/1/zpae088/7912101




How the Little-Known Zeigarnik Effect Impacts Everyone Daily


https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/natural-order/202209/how-the-little-known-zeigarnik-effect-impacts-everyone-daily




The Art of Sustainable Performance: The Zeigarnik Effect


https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-030-46463-9_10




Dreaming and offline memory processing


https://www.cell.com/current-biology/fulltext/S0960-9822(10)01360-6?_returnURL=https%3A%2F%2Flinkinghub.elsevier.com%2Fretrieve%2Fpii%2FS0960982210013606%3Fshowall%3Dtrue




The Neuroscience of Goals and Behavior Change


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5854216/#:~:text=This%20habit%20learning%20process%20also,with%20in%20the%20first%20place.




The neural bases of feeling understood and not understood


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4249470/#nst191-B33

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The Real Downside of Intentionally Misunderstanding People

The Real Downside of Intentionally Misunderstanding People

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