What if the words you use daily are casting spells on your subconscious—and your success?

In this deep, alchemical episode of the Crown Yourself Podcast, Kimberly Spencer sits down with hypnotherapist and language queen Stepanka Kuralova to decode how our subconscious attaches meaning to language—and how the wrong words can create limitation, misalignment, or emotional chaos.

Together, they explore how simple shifts in vocabulary can unlock healing, rewire trauma responses, and create massive transformation. From reframing “failure” into “feedback” to recognizing how collective language impacts personal beliefs, this conversation is rich with insight, story, and strategy.

Expect: real-life language reframes, healing breakthroughs, subconscious wisdom, and empowering prompts to reclaim your voice.

If you’ve ever said “I always mess this up” or “I’m only an assistant,” this episode will invite you to reclaim your crown through the power of aligned, conscious speech.

Language is not just a tool—it’s a portal.

And Queen, the way you speak to yourself is either building your queendom—or burning it down.

Enjoy, sovereigns!

Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.

Quotes:

“The words you whisper to yourself are either building your queendom or reinforcing your cage.” ~ Kimberly Spencer

“That which is conscious manifests happily. That which is unconscious… manifests havoc.” ~ Kimberly Spencer

“Your subconscious isn’t logical—it’s emotional. And it’s listening to every word.” ~ Kimberly Spencer

Moments of Note:

[0:00 ] Welcome to Crown Yourself + Language as a Portal

 Kimberly opens the episode with a story on the power of words—and how subtle shifts change everything.

[2:14 ] Stepanka Kuralova: Language, Storytelling & the Subconscious Mind

 Stepanka joins the show to talk about her linguistic journey and how different languages rewire how we think and feel.

[5:47 ] Words with Emotional Baggage: The Invisible Programming We Carry

 Stepanka shares how language holds deep emotional anchors—and how our brains react differently to common words.

[10:22 ] The Hypnosis Factor: Why General Scripts Often Don’t Work

 Learn how hypnotherapists use language to tailor healing—and why your subconscious might reject generalized messaging.

[14:00 ] The Vocabulary of Birth: Hypnobirthing, Fear, and Feminine Power

 Stepanka and Kimberly explore hypnobirthing as a metaphor for manifestation and reframing pain into power.

[17:35 ] Rewiring Language in Business: “75 Hard” vs. “My Program”

 Kimberly shares how renaming her routines and identity helped her move from resistance to empowerment.

[21:18 ] Language & the Collective Matrix: Archetypes, Economy, and Rebellion

 The two discuss how collective language norms shape our beliefs—and how entrepreneurs can rewrite those narratives.

[25:40 ] Reframing Mistakes, Challenges & Criticism

 Stepanka reveals her most powerful reframes for emotional triggers and how to shift into empowerment instantly.

[30:12 ] Inner Child, Drama Rewards & Subconscious Loops

 How early programming affects our current emotional responses—and what to do when victimhood becomes familiar.

[34:45 ] Seeking Solutions or Seeking Attention? The Venting vs. Sharing Divide

 They explore the difference between authentic emotional processing and unconscious sabotage.

[38:20 ] Illness, Identity & Subconscious Benefits of Suffering

 Kimberly shares a powerful story about her mom’s back injury and how illness can fulfill unmet emotional needs.

[42:07 ] Are You Creating This? Owning Projection & Self-Responsibility

 The hosts talk about co-creation, projection, and stepping fully into the role of empowered creator.

[46:30 ] Language vs. Ego: The Battle for Righteousness

 Righteousness, ego rewards, and the addiction to “being right” are explored through the lens of spiritual leadership.

[49:10 ] Must vs. Choose: The Words That Trigger Resistance

 Learn how words like “must,” “have to,” and “should” sabotage motivation—and what to say instead.

[53:30 ] Final Rapid-Fire: Books, Money Rituals & Being the Queen

 Rapid-fire Q&A with Stepanka on her favorite rituals, characters, and what it means to crown herself.

[56:12 ] Connect with Stepanka + Final Reflections

 Kimberly wraps with an invitation to reflect on your words, your voice, and the reality you’re creating.

Transcript:

For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.

Sharables:

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