Therapy Won't Save a Relationship When Only One Person Shows Up
Description
This episode is brought to you by Klarify: Turn therapy sessions into case notes instantly, on any platform. Over 15,000 notes generated for 700+ therapists. HIPAA, PHIPA, & PIPEDA compliant.
In this episode, I spoke with Dayana, a registered psychotherapist who brings a dual perspective as both a couples therapist and dating coach. She reveals why seemingly trivial arguments about toothpaste caps or breathing habits often mask deeper relationship issues of resentment and disconnection. We explore how Disney movies and social media have created unrealistic relationship expectations, from "Prince Charming" fantasies to the rise of "sprinkle girls" seeking financial support without equal contribution. Dayana shares powerful insights on post-COVID communication breakdown, explaining why text messages destroy relationships and how isolation has damaged our ability to connect. She also discusses how AI tools like Klarify have transformed her practice by automating case notes, and we explore the exciting possibilities of using AI to better match people in relationships and therapy - potentially reducing divorce rates by identifying compatibility issues before they become problems.
Chapters:
(00:00:39 ) - Why Surface Conflicts Mask Deeper Relationship Issues
(00:04:17 ) - Modern Dating Challenges and the Scarcity Mindset
(00:06:18 ) - How Disney and Social Media Create Unrealistic Expectations
(00:12:19 ) - The Communication Breakdown After COVID
(00:20:19 ) - Running a Therapy Practice With Your Spouse
(00:27:18 ) - How AI Can Enhance Therapy and Relationships
(00:32:10 ) - The Future of Human Connection
About the Host:
Moody Abdul is the co-founder of Klarify and host of the Future of Therapy podcast. After experiencing the powerful combination of therapy and AI tools during a personal breakthrough, he became passionate about helping therapists leverage technology to enhance their practice. Through Klarify, he's working to automate time-consuming tasks like case notes, allowing therapists to focus more on client care. The Future of Therapy podcast reaches over 43,000 therapists across North America.
- Website: https://www.klarify.ca/
- LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/moodyabdul
About Dayana Romero:
Dayana is a Registered Psychotherapist with the CRPO in Ontario with over 16 years of experience in mental health and wellness. She specializes in relationship therapy, offering Couples Therapy through the Gottman Institute and Sex Therapy through the University of Guelph. As a certified Dating Coach and SYMBIS Assessment practitioner, she guides individuals through modern dating challenges and provides pre-marital counseling. Additionally, Dayana serves as a Mediator with the ADR Institute of Ontario/Canada, helping couples navigate separation or divorce outside of court. Contact: https://www.dayanamromero.com/



