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Thursday Thoughts: DISENGAGEMENT and Musical Make-up Sex

Thursday Thoughts: DISENGAGEMENT and Musical Make-up Sex

Update: 2025-11-20
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In this episode of the Solo Musician Podcast, host Dave Gates takes a vulnerable look at the slow, silent experience of losing touch with your creativity as a solo musician. There’s no big breaking point — just a gradual drift, until one day you realize you feel miles away from the music you used to love.

This episode seeks to unpack the emotional flatline that often follows: the numbness, the self-doubt, and the quiet questions that echo louder when you’re creating alone.
Do I even want this anymore?
Was I ever good enough?
Would anyone notice if I walked away?

Dave tries to reframe disengagement not as a failure but as information — a signal that something needs to shift, not stop. You’ll hear thoughtful guidance on gently reconnecting with your art, from rediscovering music as a listener to lowering your creative expectations and remembering what first lit the spark.

“Disengagement” is a reassuring reminder that creative seasons ebb and flow. If you’re feeling disconnected from your music, you’re not alone — and your return will be more powerful than you think.
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Thursday Thoughts: DISENGAGEMENT and Musical Make-up Sex

Thursday Thoughts: DISENGAGEMENT and Musical Make-up Sex

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