I recently listened to Mel Robbin's book, "Let Them". I will admit, I was a bit skeptical at first and I will also admit I am a touch jealous of Mel and how well she has done her podcast and how successful she has been. A little jealousy can be good, and in this case, is incentive to be better and work harder. So, I listened to the book. What I got out of it was something that I have believed for a long time. It is the idea that you can only control your own actions and thoughts. You can't ever control anyone else. It is a good reminder for those of us who already adhere to the, "To each their own" idea. And it is a good lesson for those who hadn't considered it. Sometimes you just gotta give a person or situation an imaginary shrug and say, "To each their own!"