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Two Therapists in Bed: Can You Really Make a Marriage Bulletproof?

Two Therapists in Bed: Can You Really Make a Marriage Bulletproof?

Update: 2025-09-17
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In this episode, John and Vanessa dive into one of their most personal conversations yet: Can you make a marriage bulletproof?


What starts with a casual coffee shop chat about Costa Rica being a place where marriages “come to die” spirals into a raw, honest discussion about trust, romance, fear, and what truly keeps a relationship alive.


They debate:



  • Why moving to “paradise” can magnify relationship cracks.

  • The difference between trusting the container of marriage vs. trusting the love itself.

  • Realist vs. romantic mindsets in marriage and how they collide.

  • Vulnerability, attachment styles, and what it means to truly choose someone.


If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship could survive the hardest tests or if bulletproof love even exists - this episode is for you.


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Two Therapists in Bed: Can You Really Make a Marriage Bulletproof?

Two Therapists in Bed: Can You Really Make a Marriage Bulletproof?

The Angry Therapist