In this episode, Jim & Tanya discuss our need for external validation,  especially from our relationship partners - our wives, husbands, girl- and boyfriends, whomever. It's perfectly normal to take our need for validation and to take our core questions to our partners.  After all, they know us the best, so they would - or should - know the answer to our core questions. What are those questions? There is a masculine core question, and a feminine core question. Listen to find out what they are, and how we need them answered, in part at least, by our partners.