Key Points

Gaius – Walked in truth, was faithful, hospitable toward missionaries, and had a great testimony.

Diotrephes – Put himself first, rejected authority, gossiped, refused hospitality, stopped others from serving, and removed people from the church who opposed him.

Demetrius – Had a good testimony from everyone and from the truth itself.

Walking in truth means living out what you believe—truth is not just known, but practiced.

Hospitality begins with humility—putting others before self for the sake of God’s glory.

Supporting God’s workers makes us fellow workers in the truth.

Self-centeredness poisons the body of Christ; humility and service build it up.

Discussion Questions

Which of the three men in 3 John do you most relate to in this season of life—Gaius, Diotrephes, or Demetrius? Why?

How can we practically “walk in the truth” in daily life?

What does hospitality look like for you—both in your home and in the church?

Have you ever been tempted to put yourself first in ministry or relationships? How did you handle it?

In what ways can you actively support God’s workers—locally and globally—this month?