What makes a ‘good listener’ with ADHD?

What makes a ‘good listener’ with ADHD?

Update: 2025-03-25
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People with ADHD can often get a bad rap for being “bad listeners.” So, instead of actually listening, we’re often focusing on: Do they know I'm listening? Am I making enough eye contact? Do I look engaged?

Host Cate Osborn chats with Understood.org Vice President of Expertise and licensed therapist Sarah Greenberg about  the listening strengths and weaknesses that can come with ADHD. They also unpack different modes of listening like listening to understand, listening to solve, and listening to connect.

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(00:41 ) Feeling self-conscious about our ability to listen with ADHD

(05:56 ) Different modes of listening

(07:40 ) Figuring out our listening strengths and weaknesses

(14:32 ) Anecdotal communication

(16:48 ) Asking what a person needs out of a conversation

(21:47 ) What can we do?

For a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This page on Understood.org

We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org.


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What makes a ‘good listener’ with ADHD?

What makes a ‘good listener’ with ADHD?

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