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When Every Night Is a Meltdown: How to End Bedtime Battles for Good

When Every Night Is a Meltdown: How to End Bedtime Battles for Good

Update: 2025-11-02
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If every evening feels like emotional warfare, you’re not alone. Exhausted, desperate, and out of ideas? In this episode, Justin and Kylie share three powerful ways to turn chaotic, tear-filled nights into calm, connected moments — so bedtime stops being a battle and starts feeling peaceful again.

KEY POINTS

  • The three pillars for calmer nights: routine, environment, and presence
  • Why predictability helps kids feel safe (and parents feel sane)
  • The surprising power of dim lights, soft music, and storytime
  • What your kids are really asking for when they “stall” bedtime
  • Simple, loving ways to reconnect — even when you’re out of patience

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“They just want to feel safe and secure and know that they’re loved — that’s the game.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

  1. Create a predictable nightly rhythm — same order, same cues.
  2. Ditch screens an hour before bed and dim the lights.
  3. Be present, not perfect — a calm hug goes further than any rule.

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When Every Night Is a Meltdown: How to End Bedtime Battles for Good

When Every Night Is a Meltdown: How to End Bedtime Battles for Good

Dr Justin Coulson