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When It Hurts Too Much to Stay

When It Hurts Too Much to Stay

Update: 2025-11-30
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What do you do when the pain becomes too much to carry?This episode dives into the breaking point: the moment when emotions stop feeling survivable and something inside you says enough. We’ll hear from people who cut everyone off, not out of hate but out of desperation. People who couldn’t keep explaining their pain to those who didn’t understand it, and people who learned, the hardest way possible, that healing sometimes starts with heartbreak.

It’s about reaching the edge, and what happens when you finally let go; of others, of hope, or of the version of yourself that kept begging to be loved right.


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00:00 Intro

01:29 Conflict with one, turned into cutting EVERYONE out. ⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/1lz2pzu/conflict_with_one_turned_into_cutting_everyone_out/⁠

03:02 It bothers me that BPD can be so excruciatingly painful and debilitating but there is no such thing as painkillers for such unbearable emotional pain. ⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/17usbkl/it_bothers_me_that_bpd_can_be_so_excruciatingly/⁠

06:07 BPD that cut people out of their lives ⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/1ez2z8x/bpd_that_cut_people_out_of_their_lives/⁠

10:32 The heart-breaking thing about BPD is knowing I always felt pain way and will always feel pain. ⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/u06eou/the_heartbreaking_thing_about_bpd_is_knowing_i/⁠

14:48 BPD is so painful and isolating ⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/ntx1ho/bpd_is_so_painful_and_isolating/⁠

20:00 Wanting to support someone with BPD the right way. Not trying to fix them, just trying to stay the right way ⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/1m1oq6q/wanting_to_support_someone_with_bpd_the_right_way/

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When It Hurts Too Much to Stay

When It Hurts Too Much to Stay

Sandra Meland