DiscoverEquestrian Performance MindsetWhen Things Don't go According to Plan - #198
When Things Don't go According to Plan - #198

When Things Don't go According to Plan - #198

Update: 2025-08-10
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What do you do when your biggest goal slips through your fingers? When something that should be easy just falls apart?


In this raw and real episode, I share a personal story after a surprise elimination at a 2* event that derailed my path to the 7-year-old World Championships. Alongside Lorna, we unpack what it really means to reframe a “failure” and keep moving forward with clarity and confidence.


In this episode, we talk about:



  • The emotional rollercoaster of watching your goals slip away

  • Why riding “a level down” doesn’t always mean an easy round

  • How complacency and expectations can quietly sabotage performance

  • The danger of letting your ego (or Instagram!) define your self-worth

  • My powerful 3-step post-competition reflection process

  • What to do when you see someone else succeed at your goal

  • Why setbacks don’t mean you're not good enough, they just mean you're growing


If you’ve ever:



  • Felt blindsided by a disappointing competition

  • Wondered if you should just stop setting goals altogether

  • Struggled to bounce back when things don’t go to plan

  • Compared your messy middle to someone else’s perfect highlight reel... …


then this episode will meet you exactly where you are, and show you how to shift.


Resources Mentioned:


🧠 Receive our weekly mindset & performance hacks: mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks
💌 Email the team: info@mindeq.eu


Follow us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau

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When Things Don't go According to Plan - #198

When Things Don't go According to Plan - #198

Jocelin Lillienau