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Why ‘The Stages of Grief’ Are a Myth—And What Really Helps with Emma Payne

Why ‘The Stages of Grief’ Are a Myth—And What Really Helps with Emma Payne

Update: 2025-08-28
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This week I'm joined by Emma Payne, founder of Help Texts, a grief support platform that sends personalized text messages to people navigating loss.
 
We discuss the realities of grief, how to support someone who is grieving, and the transformative impact loss can have on our lives.
 
In this episode we cover:
-The four tasks of mourning and acute grief risks
-What language to use and avoid with those suffering
-Practical ways to support grieving friends and family
-The importance of social connection during bereavement
-Common mistakes in grief support (and how to avoid them)
-How grief can lead to positive life changes
-Building resilience for future losses
-Help Texts service and grief-informed texting
 
Find more about HelpTexts
 
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@modrnmed @dr.marypardee
 
 








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Why ‘The Stages of Grief’ Are a Myth—And What Really Helps with Emma Payne

Why ‘The Stages of Grief’ Are a Myth—And What Really Helps with Emma Payne

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