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Why Being Different Feels Risky — And Why It Might Save Your Life

Why Being Different Feels Risky — And Why It Might Save Your Life

Update: 2025-10-03
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Why does being different feel so dangerous — especially today?


In this episode of NUGGETS, Pellegrino and Francois dig into the ancient fear of standing out, why our brains still treat “being too different” as a threat, and how social media has cranked that fear up to maximum volume.


From tribal survival wiring to Steve Jobs, Prince, Bowie, and the stories we hide even from the people closest to us, this episode unpacks:

  • Why your brain interprets difference as a risk
  • How social comparison magnifies the fear of standing out
  • Why hiding who you are costs more than being seen
  • How embracing your quirks, interests, and weirdness leads to the right people, the right tribe, and the right opportunities


Inspired by Pellegrino’s daughter Emily, this Nugget asks a simple but life-changing question:


What’s riskier — being laughed at today, or regretting a life where you never showed who you really are?


Because the courage to be different isn’t the end of fear —


It’s the beginning of belonging.


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Why Being Different Feels Risky — And Why It Might Save Your Life

Why Being Different Feels Risky — And Why It Might Save Your Life