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Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)

Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)

Update: 2025-11-19
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All modules, worksheets, and bonus sessions. This video compiles key moments from the second core module from our relationship course - "How to Fight Without Fighting"


You'll learn:



  • Why repair looks completely different for each partner

  • How to ask for (and give) permission to reopen old conversations

  • What to do when you still feel hurt but your partner has “moved on”

  • The moment he realized he was wrong — and how that changed everything

  • Why fights are often bids for connection, not battles

  • How childhood patterns shape how we handle conflict as adults

  • What healthy masculine containment looks like in emotional moments

  • How to rebuild trust after a rupture

  • What apology, accountability, and understanding truly require


This episode is about the messy, human, honest side of relationships — and the courage it takes to repair in a way that actually heals.


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Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)

Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)

The Angry Therapist