Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)
Description
Full Video Course HERE
All modules, worksheets, and bonus sessions. This video compiles key moments from the second core module from our relationship course - "How to Fight Without Fighting"
You'll learn:
- Why repair looks completely different for each partner
- How to ask for (and give) permission to reopen old conversations
- What to do when you still feel hurt but your partner has “moved on”
- The moment he realized he was wrong — and how that changed everything
- Why fights are often bids for connection, not battles
- How childhood patterns shape how we handle conflict as adults
- What healthy masculine containment looks like in emotional moments
- How to rebuild trust after a rupture
- What apology, accountability, and understanding truly require
This episode is about the messy, human, honest side of relationships — and the courage it takes to repair in a way that actually heals.
🔗 Resources & Links
👉 Apply to Inner Compass Academy HERE
👉 Follow Vanessa on Instagram HERE
📘 Read John’s new book in progress Sh*t Your Therapist Would Never Tell You on John’s SubStack HERE
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices























