Why Self-Love Isn’t About ‘Bouncing Back’ or ‘Fixing’ Yourself"
Description
Transformation stories are everywhere—before-and-afters, glow-ups, success arcs. But what if real self-love isn’t about reinventing yourself—but about being present where you are, without pressure?
This episode unpacks how social media, self-help culture, and gendered resilience narratives push us toward self-optimization at the cost of self-acceptance. We explore the psychology of storytelling (McAdams, 2001), the feminist critique of the "bounce-backable woman" (Gill & Orgad, 2018), and why emotional smoothing shapes how we retell our past.
If you’re ready to stop waiting for the ‘perfect’ story and start sharing where you are, this one’s for you.
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