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This podcast episode features an interview with Lindsay Mezzelar, a dating and relationship expert, who shares her insights on love, loss, and the unspoken truths about relationships. Lindsay discusses her journey with defining her relationship with her husband, Stephen, and how she used her podcast as a way to communicate her readiness for commitment. She also shares her perspective on love at first sight, soulmates, and the importance of authenticity in dating. Lindsay recounts her experience with being dumped on her birthday, which led to the creation of her podcast, "We Met at Acme," a platform for open conversations about dating and relationships in New York City. She also discusses her preference for dating men who are not on social media, her views on fidelity and cheating, and the importance of continuing to date your partner even after marriage. Lindsay shares her personal experiences with IVF and PCOS, highlighting the challenges she faced and the importance of seeking medical advice. She also discusses her journey with sobriety, her experience with mental health and therapy, and how her priorities have shifted since becoming a mother. The conversation then shifts to career and the importance of perseverance and resilience in the face of rejection. Lindsay and the host share their personal experiences with rejection and how those experiences ultimately led them to their current success. They emphasize the importance of learning from mistakes, embracing vulnerability, and finding fulfillment in both career and personal life.
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Love, Loss, and Unspoken Truths: A Conversation with Lindsay Mezzelar
This episode features an interview with Lindsay Mezzelar, a dating and relationship expert, who shares her insights on love, loss, and the unspoken truths about relationships. Lindsay discusses her journey with defining her relationship with her husband, Stephen, and how she used her podcast as a way to communicate her readiness for commitment. She also shares her perspective on love at first sight, soulmates, and the importance of authenticity in dating.
Navigating Relationship Definitions and the Power of Communication
Lindsay discusses her experience with defining her relationship with her husband, Stephen, and how she used her podcast as a way to communicate her readiness for commitment without directly confronting him. She also shares her perspective on love at first sight, soulmates, and the importance of authenticity in dating.
From Heartbreak to Healing: The Birth of "We Met at Acme"
Lindsay recounts her experience with being dumped on her birthday, which led to the creation of her podcast, "We Met at Acme," a platform for open conversations about dating and relationships in New York City. She also discusses her preference for dating men who are not on social media, her views on fidelity and cheating, and the importance of continuing to date your partner even after marriage.
Navigating the Challenges of Motherhood and Career
Lindsay shares her personal experiences with IVF and PCOS, highlighting the challenges she faced and the importance of seeking medical advice. She also discusses her journey with sobriety, her experience with mental health and therapy, and how her priorities have shifted since becoming a mother.
Overcoming Rejection and Embracing Vulnerability
The conversation then shifts to career and the importance of perseverance and resilience in the face of rejection. Lindsay and the host share their personal experiences with rejection and how those experiences ultimately led them to their current success. They emphasize the importance of learning from mistakes, embracing vulnerability, and finding fulfillment in both career and personal life.
Lessons Learned from Mistakes and the Unexpected Humor of Life
The speakers delve into the relationship between rejection and success, arguing that overcoming rejection can lead to greater achievements. They share personal experiences of being rejected and how those experiences ultimately led them to their current success. They also reflect on the importance of learning from mistakes, particularly in early career stages.
Hope for Young Professionals and the Power of Perseverance
The conversation takes a humorous turn as one speaker recounts an unexpected encounter with a famous celebrity while using the restroom. This anecdote highlights the unpredictable nature of life and the potential for unexpected connections. The conversation concludes with a message of hope for young professionals who may have experienced setbacks or failures. The speakers emphasize that even mistakes can lead to positive outcomes and encourage listeners to persevere in their pursuits.
Keywords
Intrigue at First Sight
A feeling of strong interest and fascination towards someone, often accompanied by a sense of mystery and anticipation, leading to a desire to learn more about them. It's a less intense form of love at first sight, focusing on curiosity and potential rather than immediate romantic feelings.
Soulmate
A person with whom one has a deep and profound connection, often characterized by shared values, understanding, and a sense of belonging. It's not necessarily a romantic partner, but can also be a close friend, family member, or mentor.
Fidelity
The state of being faithful and loyal to a partner or commitment. It's a core value in many relationships, emphasizing trust, honesty, and exclusivity. It can be challenged by various factors, including temptation, emotional distance, or unmet needs.
IVF
In vitro fertilization, a process of fertilization where an egg is fertilized by sperm outside the body, in a laboratory. It's a common assisted reproductive technology used to help couples struggling with infertility.
PCOS
Polycystic ovary syndrome, a hormonal disorder affecting women, characterized by irregular periods, excess androgen production, and the development of cysts on the ovaries. PCOS can lead to infertility, weight gain, and other health issues. It's a common condition, affecting approximately 10% of women of reproductive age.
Sobriety
The state of abstaining from alcohol or other addictive substances. It's often a conscious choice made to improve one's health, well-being, and relationships.
Mental Health
A broad term encompassing emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It's essential for overall health and happiness, and includes a range of conditions, such as anxiety, depression, and stress.
Rejection
The act of being refused or turned down, often in the context of job applications, relationships, or creative endeavors. Rejection can be a difficult experience, but it can also be a catalyst for growth and success.
Vulnerability
The state of being open and honest about one's feelings, thoughts, and experiences. Vulnerability is often associated with authenticity and can foster deeper connections with others.
Q&A
How did Lindsay approach the conversation about defining her relationship with Stephen in the early stages?
Lindsay used her podcast as a way to communicate her readiness for commitment without directly confronting Stephen. She would discuss relationship topics and ask poll questions on Instagram, subtly hinting at her desire for a more serious relationship.
What is Lindsay's perspective on love at first sight?
Lindsay believes in intrigue at first sight rather than love at first sight. She feels that while immediate chemistry is important, it's crucial to see if there's longevity and compatibility beyond initial attraction.
How did Lindsay's experience with being dumped on her birthday lead to the creation of her podcast?
Lindsay felt a need for solace and connection with other women going through similar dating experiences in New York City. She started her podcast, We Met at Acme, as a way to process her own heartbreak and provide a platform for open conversations about dating and relationships.
What is Lindsay's advice for women who are struggling with infertility?
Lindsay emphasizes the importance of seeking medical advice and understanding your body's needs. She recommends going off birth control for a few months to assess your cycle and consult with a doctor if you have any concerns about your fertility.
How does Lindsay balance her career with her role as a mother?
Lindsay finds fulfillment in achieving success in both her career and her role as a mother. She believes that it's possible to have a fulfilling career while raising a family, and she strives to create a balance between the two.
How can rejection be a catalyst for success?
Rejection can force us to re-evaluate our goals, develop resilience, and explore new opportunities. It can also provide valuable feedback that helps us improve our skills and strategies.
What are some key lessons learned from making mistakes in early career stages?
Making mistakes is an essential part of learning and growth. It allows us to identify areas for improvement, develop problem-solving skills, and gain valuable experience.
How can we embrace vulnerability in our professional lives?
Being vulnerable means being open and honest about our strengths and weaknesses. It allows us to build authentic connections with others and create a more supportive and collaborative work environment.
What are some of the challenges and rewards of working in the podcast industry?
The podcast industry offers a platform for diverse voices and perspectives, but it can also be competitive and require a significant amount of dedication and effort. The rewards include the ability to connect with a large audience and share your unique story.
Show Notes
Introducing The blessing of getting dumped on your birthday with Lindsey Metselaar from Brutally Anna.
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Lindsey Metselaar, host of the hit dating podcast, We Met At Acme, proves that getting dumped on your birthday can sometimes lead to great things. On this week’s episode, find out why women should listen to what men actually say, why Lindsey believes women are less likely to fall in love at first sight than men, and how the most heartbreaking relationships are sometimes the shortest ones.
Lindsey talks about that time she was the other woman, quitting drinking (and other things), and who she thinks cheaters should marry. We unpack her PCOS diagnosis and her fertility journey and how Lindsey navigates her career and her newfound motherhood.
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