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We explore why anger surges when life does not match our expectations and how simple shifts in prediction, planning, and communication can help us stay grounded. Stories from trains, shops, golf courses, and home show how tiny triggers point to bigger patterns.

• the brain’s prediction error as a driver of anger
• everyday triggers that generalise into global frustration
• relationship clashes caused by hidden expectations
• how “calm down” backfires when someone is flooded
• scripts that help people feel heard and de-escalate
• injustice and respect as amplifiers of rage
• planning buffers and pessimistic prep to reduce triggers
• holidays as audits that surface unprocessed feelings
• building slack, naming needs, and debriefing patterns

Do come and join us on YouTube where you can see the video, and do come and say hi on Instagram and tell us when anger got the better of you and how you wished that it hadn’t, and what you might do in the future to stop this happening again

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