🎧 From Isolation to Impact: Alexandra Fernandez’s Quest to Bring Her Twins Safely Home

Update: 2025-07-17

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In this powerful episode of Finding Common Ground with Heather & Steve, we sit down with Alexandra Fernandez, a devoted mother of 10-year-old twins with profound autism. Alexandra bravely shares what it’s like to care for children with such intensive needs—and what happens when the right supports simply don’t exist.After speaking up at OPWDD’s first Listening Tour session in Central New York, Alexandra's heartfelt testimony caught the attention of Commissioner Willow Baer. The result? Real action—and real change. Her twins will soon be coming home! While it’s a dream come true, Alexandra knows that the challenges that existed before their hospital stay haven’t magically disappeared. More work is needed to ensure that this time is different—that the family is truly wrapped in the supports and safety nets they need to make this a lasting, sustainable solution.This conversation reminds us that advocacy works, that one voice can ripple outward, and that sometimes the win we desperately need is closer than we think. A few highlights:

What makes profound autism different—and why the system isn’t built to support it
Alexandra’s practical solutions: from in-home potty training programs to behavioral crisis lines
A behind-the-scenes look at the Center for Discovery’s new specialty hospital

"To have the opportunity to tell our story is rare—and when you’re caring for someone with profound autism, the isolation can be overwhelming. The level of care required, the services that are missing, the boundaries we’re not allowed to cross—these are things most people don’t see, but they define our everyday." – AlexandraIf you've ever wondered whether your voice matters, this episode proves it does. This podcast is a personal mission. We’re not funded by big sponsors—we grow through shares, likes, comments, and subscriptions. Help us spread stories that make a difference: