9 Lives

How many lives have you lived? 9 Lives is the wellness podcast with real life, gritty stories and actionable tools to help you re-write your own tale.

S3E01. Breakdowns & Burnout to Brilliance

Hello friends! Welcome back to 9 Lives Podcast. I am so delighted to be back! Thank you for your patience whilst I took some time out. This week we are discussing mental health breakdowns, burnout, learning to live with big failures, and how to dust yourself off and get back up. Life is messy, and never linear. We must learn to live in the nuance of it all. I hope this episode can serve as some relief in this era of hustle culture. I'm looking forward to a season of honesty, toolkits, poetry, follow alongs, hopeful ramblings, special guests and so much more. Thank you for being here! Always love, Cass (02:03) Honest life update (04:51) Success at all costs, the hustle is not worth your health (19:19) And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good. (20:11) What is burnout & why are so many young people experiencing it? (23:14) Workplace expectations, are they toxic? (26:31) Productive exercise vs unproductive exercise (36:54) How to get in touch with your soul over ego (41:40) Sitting with your loneliness (43:29) Taking mental bookmarks of meaningful moments (50:19) Health markers to look out for in depressive episodes (51:54) Closing thoughts (53:35) "If" by Rudyard Kipling

12-16
57:07

S2E22. Season Finale: Answering the Hard Questions

I can't believe how fast these two seasons have flown by. Next time you see me - after a short break - I'll be coming to you from my own 9 Lives studio! This podcast has been the best lesson in discipline, consistency and doing things even on days you don't really feel like it. To finish the season, I wanted to chat to you and answer your questions about mindset, fitness, running, recovery and much more. Thank you friends, until next season! Love always Cass xx

06-03
01:01:55

S2E21. Lucy Davis: The Price of Extraordinary

A real honour to be joined by athlete, ultra marathon runner and businesswoman - Lucy Davis - on today’s episode.  I’m so proud and feel very privileged that Lucy felt 9 Lives was a safe enough environment to open up about the impact of competing and participating in multiple endurance sporting events has had on her self esteem over the years. We discuss her life growing up as a swimmer and gymnast as well as her experience recovering from an eating disorder in her early twenties.  Lucy is nothing short of extraordinary in her endeavours but her daily anxieties and worries are extremely ordinary. We talked about finding peace among your people, recognising when it’s time to pause and how exhausting it can be existing in your masculine energy in so many areas of your life.  I hope you can all take something away from this episode that encourages you to be kind to yourself and to relieve the pressure.  Love always Cass xx

05-27
01:12:44

S2E20. Zanna Van Dijk: Conquering fears & redefining yourself after burnout

Welcoming my friend and long-time creator, Zanna Van Dijk to 9 Lives! Getting to know Zanna over the past 6 months has been an absolute joy and this conversation really encapsulates the inspiration and empowerment that I - and hundreds of thousands of others - draw from Zanna's experiences and mindset. This chat is one about finding balance after burn out, maintaining friendships in adulthood and creating boundaries among many more topics.Hope you take something from this and in Zanna's words, don't forget to slow down and look after yourself. Love always, Cass xx (00:15) Introducing Zanna (03:47) Zanna's 4 Lives (06:55) Fear and bravery (12:00) Advice for beginner runners (15:19) Productivity and juggling life's responsibilities (20:00) Where do you attach your value? (20:55) Nothing is worth your health (24:55) Refining success through friendship (27:43) How to find new friendships in adulthood (37:40) Setting boundaries (41:44) Hosting hiking trips all over the world (47:47) Jody Lynn Poem

05-20
50:02

S2E19. Curbing impulsive behaviour and getting out of debt

While I've mentioned my experience getting out of debt before, I wanted to dedicate an episode to explaining the behaviours that caused me to rack up that debt and crucially, the changes I made in order to now be fully debt free and running my own business. In this episode I talk about the price of wellness, getting control of impulsive behaviours and conquering the fear of starting something new. If you're struggling with impulsive behaviours that are having a negative impact on your life from your relationships to your finances, the very first step is reaching out and sharing the problem with someone. A balanced life is absolutely possible for you. Love always Cass xx (00:52) Introduction (04:00) Sit Around the Fire by Ram Dash (06:28) My story and its relevance to the topic (08:35) Reflections on Entrepreneurship  (09:08) Impulse Control (12:27) Impulsivity’s two characteristics (20:12) You must address impulse control before any journey (23:28) Money management (29:17) An example of investing in yourself  (32:03) Being scared of success and others’ opinions (33:23) The Spotlight Effect (35:06) Go in with the right mindset (36:15) Prepare before you start (38:00) Closing thoughts

05-13
42:53

S2E18. "Go out and dance" Becky Briggs, marathon record holder

I'm so honoured to have Becky Briggs - an elite runner, record holder and all-round ray of sunshine - on the podcast. Reflecting on her relationship with running, how it's shifted over time and how she came to represent Britain and win(!!) the Manchester Marathon by such a young age, Becky offers some beautiful perspectives on using running as a means to reconnect with yourself and with nature, as well as her experience recovering from injury. I hope you all enjoy this episode, I'd love to hear from you below! Love always, Cass xx Follow Becky: https://www.instagram.com/becky_briggs_nrg/ Follow 9 Lives: https://www.instagram.com/9lives_podcast/ Follow me! https://www.instagram.com/cassiatierney/ (00:22) Intro to Becky Briggs (01:45) Becky's Five Lives (04:13) Expressing femininity in sport (05:50) When did you know "Elite" running was possible? (08:06) What is it that motivates Becky (10:44) Optimising nutrition for your running journey (13:30) Releasing control and reframing races - "Go Dance!" (15:58) Question from a listener - how would you go about your first 5K or 10K? (17:20) Don't overcomplicate starting (19:51) What or who made you decide to start running? (22:10) Coming back from injury (23:44) Becky's comeback marathon: Her experience (24:42) Rituals on the morning of a race (27:45) Recovery (30:11) What signs tell you its time for a day off? (31:27) Goals for the year (32:20) It's never too late! (35:00) Advice for young people trying to find purpose or drive (36:20) Runs that stand out for Becky (37:42) Quick fire questions (40:28) Becky's favourite book passage

05-06
45:03

S2E16. [BONUS EP] Running a marathon as a beginner

I know so many of you are working towards running goals and whether it’s a 10k, a half marathon or a full marathon, I know how important and helpful it is to hear first-hand experience and tips from someone who has been in your shoes. Today I brought my friend - and producer of 9 Lives - Rhyanna, onto the podcast to talk about her experience going from beginner to marathon runner in 7 months.  Thank you for submitting your questions - I loved recording this episode! Let me know in the comments below whether you’d like to see more AMA and Q&A bonus episodes from me!  Love always Cass xx (01:56) why did you decide to do a marathon? (05:50) Sticking to your goals in life outside of running (08:45) How does running get easier? (10:10) Did you have to give up anything to train? (13:30) Fondest memory in preparation for the race (15:02) Back yourself!  (16:49) How do you get over race day nerves as a new runner? (21:19) Rhyanna’s race experience (23:30) Nutrition tips for first time runner (28:06) Have a plan for immediately after the race (29:15) The best piece of advice for recovery (30:20) What was the most surprising thing about the training block for both of you? (36:00) What kept you motivated throughout the training block and how did you avoid “the fear”? (40:10) How did you make a training block work with a busy schedule? (44:49) Your first run ever (47:14) Did you have fun?! New goals

04-23
50:40

S2E15. How to quit bad habits

We've covered habit building in a number of episodes but this week I wanted to discuss how to break the bad habits that are no longer serving you. One of my most asked questions is "Cass, how did you quit smoking for good?" In this episode I break down my own experience and give you 7 tips that you can apply to any habit that you feel is holding you back from reaching your goals. Let me know if you found this episode helpful - my DMs are always open! Love always, Cass x (00:05) I’m back from Paris! Thank you for last week’s feedback (01:43) Intro - Can we create new habits while breaking old ones? (02:06) My smoking backstory (05:00) In order to change our habits, we need to understand habit cycles (09:10) Stress levels and our dopamine systems  (14:10) Habit replacement (16:30) It’s okay to do it in stages, it’s okay to do it cold turkey. Just start (19:10) Can you be a smoker and a long distance runner? (21:14) You can change your behavioural patterns at anytime - they are not your identity (30:40) How stress impacted romantic relationships (33:00) Distract yourself during urges or cravings (33:13) Reward yourself for your progress (35:09) Forgive yourself for your slip ups

04-22
41:23

S2E14. Why I'm glad I failed my marathon goal

I took on Paris Marathon last weekend with the goal of a sub-4 completion time. I missed out on that goal but this "failure" ended up teaching me the greatest lesson. I hope you all enjoy hearing my recap of the race as well as some of my reflections on running, races and setting goals. Hopefully my experience can encourage you to take on a new perspective and be more gentle with yourself. Love always, Cass xx (01:09) How do I feel about my Paris marathon performance? (04:50) Thank you for the feedback on last week’s episode (06:23) Breaking down how the training block and race itself went (14:24) It’s okay to opt out of the comparison trap (16:28) When I decided to slow down… (19:13) The shake out run (19:57) Race Day - the run itself (28:00) Every runner has a different story (30:20) I was relieved that I didn’t sub-4 - this was the real test.. (38:10) The power of saying “no” and rejecting validation from others (43:10) Doing something stressful on occasion can teach you lessons, but so can slowing down (44:00) What’s next for me…

04-15
51:55

S2E13. Managing depression during your fitness journey

We spoke in Series 1 about The Black Dog - the metaphor I feel perfectly represents the relationship I have with depression. In today’s episode I wanted to revisit that topic but speak more specifically about how you can find - and navigate - a fitness journey while working through mental health conditions. We chat about how essential it is that you press on and grab opportunities to improve your wellbeing, even if the action feels unbearable in the moment. Start now with what you have, do not wait for motivation to come knocking. Change does not happen by accident and you deserve it - why *not* you? All my love, Cass xx (02:20) Intro - finding wellness within depression or a mood disorder (04:13)  Content Warning - conversation around depression (05:11) My earliest memory experiencing depression (06:32) Revisiting the metaphor of the Black Dog (11:30) Acceptance - forcing things will feel unnatural (14:35) Putting motivation before action is like putting the cart before the horse (17:20) Playing down the changes that you make  (17:46) Giving up because of one bad experience - if one method doesn’t work, try another! (22:38) “Why not me?” (24:46) Why exercise makes us feel better when we’re struggling  (28:52) The physical symptoms of depression (33:28) Start where you are, with what you have

04-08
40:58

S2E12. How to be brave - building the courage to make lasting change

When you think of the word "brave" you might think of big, bold acts with huge, transformative reward that follows, but today I wanted to talk about how you can be brave in your everyday - I give 9 tools to become braver in both big and small ways that will ultimately build confidence and see you change your life for good. How have you been brave recently? Let's chat in the comments. Love always, Cass xx (00:00) - Hello! My update (05:06) - When I think of the word “Brave” (06:56) - Harnessing courage (08:13) - 9 ways you can grow and be brave as a person… (08:37) - 1. Building Optimism (gratitude, self-talk, pre-planning pathways to your goals, visualisation) (17:20) - 2. Finding Courage (comparison, finding your “brave”) (20:38) - 3. Increasing Confidence (keeping promises to yourself, affirmations) (26:09) - 4. Accumulating competence and knowledge (learning, reading, growing) (30:41) - 5. Engaging in physical fitness (feeling physically able to meet your personal needs) (34:09) - 6. Practice (consistency, making it automatic, reinforcement) (40:40) - 7. Accepting responsibility (prosocial motivation) (45:54) - 8. Surrounding yourself with people you see as brave (be ruthless with who gets your brain space, group positive effect) (50:13) - 9. Speaking with a professional (knowing when to see help, this can sometimes be the bravest thing of all) (53:01) - Asking for help can be one of the bravest things a human being can do.

04-01
56:03

S2E11. How to train hybrid - balance running & lifting weights

Perhaps one of my most popular FAQs: Cassia, why do you train hybrid and what even is hybrid training? For me, hybrid has become a way of life and the most sustainable way to stay happy and active. In this episode I talk about the fundamentals of this training style including goal setting and how endurance running and lifting weights can compliment one another when it comes to health benefits as well as mind set. Don't forget to tag me in your selfies this week while you're out training and on your adventures - I can't wait for us all to connect even more. Love always, Cass xx (00:00) Hello! Where I’m at with Marathon Training  (01:53) Introduction to this week’s topic: Hybrid Training (04:01) Jack of all trades, master of none? (05:03) What lifting and running taught me (06:20) Addressing the technicalities and noise around how to do hybrid “correctly” (09:37) So, what IS “Hybrid”? (12:37) If you’re at the start of your journey and this mindset feels far off… (13:30) How do we improve strength and endurance simultaneously? (14:38) Hybrid training is hard on the body - a note on splits and double sessions (17:31) The health benefits of Hybrid training (19:02) What are the fundamentals of Hybrid programming? (19:40) Choosing your goal (21:15) Training frequency (25:05) Recovery and nutrition  (27:53) Fuelling for a long run (30:48) Does running ruin muscle gains? (33:50) Hybrid allows you to be intuitive  (40:46) ‘You are weird in a wonderful sort of way’

03-25
42:36

S2E10. 4 life changing things I gained from my fitness journey - how to stay motivated while changing your routine

When discussing weight loss and changing daily routines and habits, it's not often we focus on what we gain from the journey; attention often sits with the sacrifice and the grit it takes to transform your life. This week I wanted to reframe the journey and remind you of the life changing things I gained from embarking on this journey from reduced inflammation to improved cognitive function. Changes from this journey are so much more than what you see on the outside! I hope you enjoy and I would love to hear what YOU have gained on your journey! Sending so much love always Cass x (02:12) - reframing the weightloss journey - what did we gain? (04:33) - my old routines vs new routines  (06:35) - the 3 “R”s of habit formation (11:08) - if I could go back to the beginning of my journey / embracing the “firsts” (13:02) - 4 things I gained on my fitness journey: (15:36) - reduced inflammation - what is inflammation, how does it show up? (22:29) - improved immune system (27:00) - clear, glowy skin  (37:06) - cognitive function (42:38) - creative hobbies can be prioritised ahead of exercise - you won’t regret it (45:54) - better posture, balance and strength for everyday tasks

03-18
53:30

S2E9. Tips for becoming alcohol free & embracing adventure

Join me at home this week as I reflect on my trip to Utah and chat to you about some thoughts I had around change, chapters in our life, seizing adventure in life and perspectives on “failure”. I also wanted to take some time in this episode to give you some practical tips and advice from my own journey to become alcohol-free as I know so many of you are sober curious, I hope this helps.  Always hope, friends.  Cass xx (00:00)-(12:34) - Utah reflections (14:31) - change and chapters (14:45) - passage from spiritual wisdom from the Celtic world (17:50) - each new day is a chance to begin again (21:37) - how I’m feeling at this stage in my marathon training block (22:45) - living an alcohol free life with my partner and finding joy in nature (28:41) - my advice and practical tips for those exploring sobriety / are sober curious (38:39) - for Josie by John o Donahue

03-11
40:46

S2E8. Keeping promises to yourself, comparison & reflections on our twenties with Savannah Sachdev

Fast approaching 1000 days of running, Savannah Sachdev is back on the podcast! In this conversation we discuss what Savannah's run streak has taught her about accountability and commitment to herself; we also spend some time reflecting on our 20s and the mindset shifts we feel as we enter our 30s and beyond. If you've felt yourself trapped in a comparison loop, hopefully this episode gives you some fresh perspectives to bring the focus back to your journey, and the joy along the way. Love always, Cass x (00:44) - welcome back to savannah!  (01:02) Savannah’s run streak - approaching 1000 days running (02:15) Our relationship with running and loneliness  (05:23) “Me against me”  (06:50) Commitment and accountability for yourself (11:01) If you’re trying to get out of a rut, try doing it everyday on a smaller scale (12:11) Can you recall the best / worst run? (12:25) Dealing with panic attacks (15:36) Dealing with the guilt that can come with your own success (19:38) Comparison in your 30s, reflections on our 20s and excitement for decades to come (23:30) When we’re older, we just want to be able to move! The Pivot! (25:40) Sav’s challenge in LA and The Speed Project (26:30) We’re doing London Marathon together! ..and we want to show marathons can also just be done for FUN! (28:02) Perspective for committing to high mileage  (30:00) It’s better to be slightly undertrained than overtrained and burnt out (31:06) Be kind to yourself during your training

03-04
38:32

S2E7. Shadow work, how to forgive yourself & stories from recovery

After a few tricky weeks for me, I wanted to chat today about getting to know - and working with - your shadow. Shadow work has been such a beneficial practice for me throughout my journey and continues to be something I do regularly. I really hope you also take away something beneficial from this episode if you're struggling to come to terms with the parts of yourself you're not so proud of, wanting to learn how to forgive yourself and let go, or trying to move through limiting beliefs. Above all, be gentle with yourself and all the past versions of yourself. We're all just trying our best. Love always Cass xx (00:00) - Hello + some reflections and intro (04:47) - My first experience understanding shadow work (06:39) - What is your shadow/shadow work? With prompts from Scott Jeffrey and Carl Jung   (09:37) - breaking shadow work down into two stages: getting to know our shadow + integrate our shadow (11:40) - the shadow is born in childhood - recognising how behaviours and beliefs are rooted in previous life experiences (15:54) - before you get to know your shadow, you must become friends with yourself (14:14) - we will always be imperfect, acceptance is uncomfortable but liberating (21:00) - journal prompts for your shadow work (26:27) - the “3,2,1” shadow process (30:40) - we can’t be happy all the time but shadow emotions are not bad emotions

02-26
38:11

S2E6. How to get fast & avoid injury or burnout on your running journey

Joining us this week is my friend, colleague and multi-marathon-runner Finlay Hampton. We take this opportunity to address some FAQ we often receive from clients and our run community from avoiding injury and burnout, to how to properly fuel with food before and during a run, to our favourite running shoes. Fin is always an incredibly welcome guest on 9 Lives and so he will be back! Let us know in the comments what you'd want us to talk about next time. Time codes and links below! Love always, Cass xx My instagram: www.instagram.com/cassiatierney Fin's instagram: www.instagram.com/runwithfin/ (00:00) - (03:00) - Reintroducing Fin (03:00) - How to get fast! 09:00) - Why coaches need a coach too! (12:40) - What is the purpose of de-load weeks? (15:40) - The excitement is in giving up control (16:20) - Is running a spiritual practice? (18:00) - Running as self discovery and expansion (22:26) - Finding a meditative state in movement (23:20) - “Drinking the running Kool aid!” (27:08) - Self-sabotage, embarrassment and getting out of your own way (34:50) - Advice to get over embarrassment when starting running (43:40) - Managing burn out and realistic mileage (48:25) - Avoiding injury (53:13) - Setting boundaries with your clients as a coach (54:10) - A coach can get you so far, but really it’s about understanding yourself (55:08) - Fin’s 18 marathons in 18 days and the knee pain on day 19 (58:03) - What to eat before and during a run? (01:00:38) - Tapering and “carb loading” (01:02:40) - What are our favourite running shoes? (01:03:30) - Why you shouldn’t run in carbon plated shoes everyday (01:09:35) - An Original Poem by Ziggy Alberts

02-19
01:15:40

S2E5. Stop giving up on yourself! How to learn patience & get to your goals.

Hello dear ones! In this week's episode we dive into how to cultivate the sticking power and patience to execute your dreams. Always falling short of your goals? This episode is for you. I also delve into some buddhist teachings, as well as the neuroscience behind building trust in ourselves. With love always Cass x

02-11
42:31

S2E4. Finding love without losing yourself. Our life & sobriety story - meet my fiancé!

You are worthy of love in all forms, in your wonderful expression of human experience here on this planet. I hope you all enjoy listening to this episode where I invite my fiancé, Joe onto the podcast. We talk about his career and how his passion for herpetology & nature has fostered a fearlessness in him that I admire very much. We also talk about how we met, our proposal story and our experience with sobriety as well as giving life advice & answering questions submitted by you all. Let me know if you enjoyed this different kind of episode, getting to know more about my life behind the scenes. Technical difficulties meant we lost the second half of this episode's video footage, sorry friends! Love always, Cass

02-05
01:06:53

S2E3. How to start running

The question I get most in my DMs is “How do I start running?” but I want you all to remember that for me it really started with setting smaller goals and growing them, as my confidence and self belief grew. A glimmer of hope and inspiration turned into a short walk, turned into a jog between trees, turned into a lap of the park, turned into 3K, turned into 5K.. 10K.. Half Marathon… and so it goes on. I can’t stress enough how important mindset is but I recognise some of you are now kicking into gear and want more information on running terms and how to structure and plan your runs. Hopefully this episode gives you that introduction. I can absolutely do more episodes on this topic, so please let me know what else I can discuss to help you progress in your running journey in the comment box below. Love always Cass (00:14) Welcome back - thank you for your feedback (01:08) Why I wanted to dedicate an episode to “how to start running” (04:30) The Marathon distance origin story - Pheidippides  (07:25) You must first begin with your mindset (13:00) Understanding running terms - what do they all mean? (14:30) Hill repeats (15:09) Intervals (15:44) ‘Easy’ runs (16:16) Long runs (17:29) Negative splits (17:56) Speed work (18:20) A ‘split’ (18:38) Tempo runs (18:49) Warm Up/Cool Down (19:12) The most important thing when beginning your running journey (20:32) We all need different plans (20:45) You will never be “ready” so just try (22:43) “Dust if you must“ by Rose Milligan

01-29
24:47

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