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Do You Know Where You Stand as a Friend?”In this episode of Mindset Matters, Kelly dives into the real side of friendship — the part we don’t always talk about. She explores the importance of understanding where you truly stand with the people in your life and how clarity in friendship can protect your peace.Kelly breaks down the different types of friends — from the confidant to the cheerleader, the connector, the fun friend, and even the seasonal friend — reminding us that not everyone is meant to be our “best friend,” and that’s okay.Through honest reflection, she discusses how mismatched expectations often cause hurt or jealousy, and how recognizing the role each person plays helps us build healthier, more balanced relationships.The episode closes with a gentle challenge: release comparison, honor your connections for what they are, and move with gratitude instead of assumption. Because when you know where you stand, you stop chasing titles and start appreciating truth.✨ A heart check on friendship, boundaries, and emotional clarity.W

🎙️ Episode Summary – Assessing Where You AreIn this episode, Kelly opens up about the power of slowing down and taking time to assess where you are in life. After a season filled with change—a move, her son’s wedding, and career reflections—she shares how important it is to pause and evaluate what’s working, what’s not, and what truly feels aligned.Kelly explores the balance between being content and craving growth, reminding listeners that both are valid. Whether you’re in a season of stillness or transition, assessing helps you reconnect with yourself, your purpose, and your next steps.Key Takeaway: Growth begins with awareness. Give yourself permission to pause, reflect, and make intentional moves toward the life you want.

Episode 5 Summary – Unpacking the Trigger BagIn this episode, we explore the invisible “bag” of experiences we all carry—past hurts, memories, and unhealed moments that spill out whenever we’re triggered. Triggers aren’t just about the present moment; they’re echoes from what’s still packed away. By recognizing the weight of our reactions, tracing them back to their roots, and choosing to release what no longer serves us, we begin to unpack the bag one piece at a time. Healing doesn’t mean never being triggered again—it means knowing how to lighten the load and walk into the future freer than before.

This episode unpacks why certain words or actions trigger strong reactions—because they push emotional buttons tied to past wounds and stories. Those buttons are live wires connected to moments of dismissal, disrespect, or shame. Some people press them intentionally, others by accident, but either way, the reaction feels bigger than the moment itself.The episode introduces boundaries as the way to unplug those wires. Boundaries aren’t selfish—they’re acts of self-respect. By noticing what triggers you, naming the story behind it, and setting limits on what you allow, you stop giving people free access to your peace.The key message: not every comment deserves a reaction. Boundaries protect your energy and free you from being controlled by others’ provocations.

This episode explores why some people interpret even the gentlest words as an attack. It explains that constant defensiveness often comes from old wounds—criticism in childhood, unstable environments, or tying self-worth to always being “right.” When feedback or boundaries are shared, it lands on those unhealed places, making even small comments feel like rejection or danger.For the listener, the trigger is the frustration of being careful with words but still being misunderstood. The episode encourages self-reflection—checking your intention, leading with care, and remembering you can be responsible for your words but not someone else’s reaction.The key message: their defensiveness is their battle, not your burden. Standing in your truth with compassion matters more than shrinking to avoid conflict.

This episode dives into the idea of projection—when people cast their own fears, insecurities, and unresolved issues onto others. It explains how being called “selfish,” “lazy,” or “too sensitive” often says more about the projector than the person receiving it. The trigger comes from how these labels poke at our hidden insecurities, making us defend ourselves against someone else’s baggage. The episode encourages listeners to pause, ask “Is this about me, or them?”, and set boundaries.

This episode explores the frustration of being dismissed, corrected, or “talked over” with “well actually…” moments. It unpacks how those interactions can feel triggering—because they tap into deeper wounds of not being heard, valued, or respected. The episode looks at why people use “well actually” (ego, insecurity, control) and how it affects those on the receiving end. It offers tools to pause, choose clarity over combat, and decide when to respond or let it go.

The series introduces the idea that triggers aren’t random—they’re signals. Each episode explores a different layer of why we react the way we do: conflict, projection, defensiveness, boundaries, and healing. The goal isn’t to blame others, but to build awareness, pause before reacting, and choose wisdom over wounds.Listeners are invited on a 5-part journey—from noticing what sparks them, to understanding the deeper roots, to learning how to respond with peace and power.

In this episode of Mindset Matters, I break down the real difference between being nice and being kind. While “nice” is about people-pleasing and keeping the peace, “kind” is rooted in truth, boundaries, and love. I share why it’s time to stop performing for approval and start showing up in your realness. Because kindness? It’s not always soft—but it’s always real.

Sometimes the thing you’re afraid to say out loud is the very thing that will set you free. In this episode, Kelly explores the emotional weight of silence and the power of truth to bring clarity, peace, and healing.

This episode is about tuning out the world to tune into you. Because clarity isn’t something we chase. It’s something we allow. Whether you’re tired of pretending, overwhelmed by opinions, or simply ready for your next right step—this moment is yours.

This episode is a gentle reminder that you don’t have to have it all figured out.Some days are heavy, and that doesn’t make you weak.You’re allowed to feel, fall apart, and still be worthy of love.Let’s talk about what it means to truly honor your emotions—without apology.

In this episode of Mindful Moments, we explore the ripple effect of one bold decision. Whether it was walking away from a relationship, quitting the job, setting a boundary, or simply saying, “Not anymore”—that one choice can be the catalyst that rewrites everything.

This episode talks about how to clear your mind of clutter

This episode talks about letting go of things that no longer give you the space to grow!

This episode is about looking within yourself

Your path is yours!

In this episode of Mindful Moments, we explore the emotional toll of negativity—how it forms, why it persists, and what you can do if you or someone you love is stuck in this mindset. Through mindful reflection, gentle strategies, and grounded encouragement, listeners are reminded that even in darkness, joy is still possible.

In this episode of Mindful Moments, we slow down to notice the beauty in life’s smallest gifts. From a morning cup of coffee to a kind word, small joys carry quiet power. They ground us, uplift us, and remind us that peace isn’t always found in the big things. Sometimes, it’s the little moments that matter most.

In this episode, we delve into the often unnoticed narratives that shape our lives - the stories we tell ourselves. We discuss how these stories, formed by past experiences and emotions, influence our self-perception and ability to grow